okay well this one girl in school comments about my hair every single day and talks about me. she tells the other girls and everything. well i dont stay with her ( well she doesnt stay with me ) and i had a sleepover with this girl i go to school with and they got all mad and like " why did you have a sleepover ith HER..." and got all fussy and now mostly everyone doesnt like me.... and everyone bows down to her .... so therefore they dont like me. what shuold I DO?>?>>>> -- im the same person on a different username-- okay i have another question....
this girl is making everyone hate me and all the girls come up to my head ( i wore a cip in extention one time) and were trying to take it off.... what do i do! i just wanna turn around anbd push them away! what should i do?
2006-10-24 14:38:21 · 7 answers · asked by kisses_in_the_rain212 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ouch, I had the same situation. A girl or a group of girls picking on me so badly that it's "uncool" to hang out with me. I couldn't have any friends for two years because of a group of girls like that. But then, I discovered that I control my own life and no one else can. So the next time I made a friend, and they started picking on her, I marched right up to their leader and asked her:
"You got a problem with that? You can pick on me all you want, but when you start picking on my friends that's were I draw the line. This is bullying and if this continues I will bring in the principal!"
They cussed at me and walked away. I now have a group of friends and we get along very well.
2006-10-24 14:48:17 · answer #1 · answered by The Animal Psychiatrist♬♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all sweetheart, don't sweat the small stuff, this is no popularity contest, it may befor them because their self esteem is not all together but you sound like you got yours together sand not looking for validation from anyone and as long as you respect yourself and not stoop to their ignorant level you will be just fine. Be true to yourself and know that you don't need them to be your friends in order to feell excepted. If you need to get a third party involved like a principal, trusted teacher or anyone in authority. Just know that you must accept yourself before anyone else can. Continue to respect and love who you are and you will make it. Show them what you are made of girl!
Good Luck and if anything, I hope I encouraged you!
2006-10-24 21:45:45 · answer #2 · answered by SAMMIE K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick up for youreself!!! Little girls will always push around and make fun of the girl that lets them do it. They will learn when they grow up that what they are doing is wrong. Friends are not everything. Do not feel like what you are doing is wrong, be yourself. You do not want to be a follower. Once you stcik up fro yourself tthey will stop slowly.
2006-10-24 21:43:38 · answer #3 · answered by spongebobswife68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are important!!!! That girl has nothing better to do with her self then to take time to talk about you...I know it may be hard...but try not to let her words get to you..because if they do that will make her come at you harder....and if she has followers that bow down to her...then they are just as lame as she is...and if they try touching you again....then go tell a teacher....
2006-10-24 21:59:44 · answer #4 · answered by lovelylady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unwanted touching is assault. Tell the principle and if he doesn't at that very minute call these girls to the office to investigate, slap assault charges on the girls and willful neglect charge on the principle. Sue him individually, don't say "the school".
2006-10-24 21:42:55 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Baby you should beat the s*** out of the main girl and the rest will
leave you alone it's ashame you have to do this but thats what it's going to come to.
2006-10-24 22:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by T.T. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray to God that they stop talking about you in keep your emenies close to you. pray for them good thing not bad because God dont like that.if they hating on you let them hate cause they dont make you or brake you, so it may be somthimg you got and they want it. if they want to put there hands on you go crazy on there ***
2006-10-24 22:02:33 · answer #7 · answered by Sun Shine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋