My fiance hides girls numbers under guys names in his cell phone. When I ask him about it, he always has (what he thinks) a clever excuse. I am not a stupid person. How do I get the TRUTH!
2006-10-24 14:38:09 · 17 answers · asked by sweetie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I feel like my heart just got torn wide open. I am an honest and loyal person with an amazing career and a great personality, what makes someone treat someone they love with such dishonesty???
2006-10-24 14:41:32 · update #1
Take a long look at the situation. If you think he is cheating, he probably is. If he is cheating now do you really think he will stop just because you get married? I know it is hard, but you are probably better off letting him go and finding someone that will treat you with honesty and respect. Good luck,
Keri
2006-10-24 15:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by kerijeanbean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if you have all this going for you, then why do you need him? People are only going to treat you how you allowed yourself to be treated. You are a smart girl, you know this. Now kick him back into the gutter you pulled him out of and find someone who is more deserving of everything you have to offer. It may not be what you want to hear, but you have to realize that this is who he is and probably always will be. Is this what you want for the rest of your life? To be lied to? TO be second best? You deserve so much more and you'll never get it, if you don't demand it.
2006-10-24 14:46:08 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think he is cheating on you then leave him , or try to find out the truth .
Or just tell your fiance that you will have relation with someone else if your fiance didn't tell you the truth .
After asking this to your fiance if he really loves you he gonna tell you the truth . Or if he lie then just dumb him .
There are many good guys out there . Find someone who will only think about you on his life . best of luck .
2006-10-24 14:47:19 · answer #3 · answered by Tithi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you give yourself the truth and quit being with the guy? For a not stupid person you sure are going to be living a stupid person life if you marry him.
2006-10-24 14:42:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am going to cut the chase, I would be like are you cheating or what. I mean if he does that there is no telling what he has already done. You need to just ask straight up with no holding back...seriously! Good Luck
2006-10-24 14:40:36 · answer #5 · answered by SAMMIE K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you don't. You should get out of the relationship because untruthful engagements turn into dishonest marriages. Save yourself the pain and heartache.
Best Wishes..and sorry I'm sure it's not what you wanted to hear.
2006-10-24 14:40:27 · answer #6 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By breaking the engagement off and finding a guy who tells you the truth.
2006-10-24 14:40:23 · answer #7 · answered by Robert B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the first place, it is also wrong for you to peek into his cell phone. If you dun trust him then there is no point in holding on to the relationship. Be it guys or gals, as long as there is no trust, there won't be any real relationship...
2006-10-24 14:43:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ring the number and see whats on the other end, tell him that you are not stupid and get to the bottom of this once and for all before it drives you mad,
2006-10-24 14:40:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's lying to you--at that point, the 'truth' doesn't even really matter. That's all you need to know; he's lying. You are currently engaged to marry a liar. Think about it for a while.
2006-10-24 14:40:49 · answer #10 · answered by Freak Of Nurture 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋