So me and my ex have been pretty on and off for like 8 months, I've treated her like a queen, I've done everything for her. She still tells me stuff like she loves me and some other BS, She has cheated on me before and I have never ever cheated on her, so recently ive been talking with this girl, a girl that my ex hates to death, but all I want from this girl is @ss, Im just sick of my ex controlling my life, I love her to death I will always love her and only her but im just sick of the way she treats me and I just kind of want to send her a message and i dont know if i should just hook up with this girl or not... do any girls got advice or anything.
2006-10-24 14:27:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You're going about this all wrong. If your ex continues to treat you bad why are you taking it? Don't go with another person she hates simply because she hates her, how cruel are you to lead this other person on just for your personal revenge. Separate yourself from the ex and start dating other girls because YOU like them. She'll get the message alright, she not the only girl who can get your attention and that your sincere in seeing someone else. Believe me she's going to be questioning her own actions when she realizes she may have lost you to someone who is a quality person who gives her a run for the money.
2006-10-24 14:34:44 · answer #1 · answered by crkristy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do that. That to me is a big no no. Go and get a** from someone else. Cause that will always come to haunt you and your relationship with this girl. Basically, it sounds like you want your girlfriend to treat you with respect and stop cheating. Just.. go and find yourself another girl.. and take a long vacation or quit seeing that girl you are talking about altogether.
2006-10-24 21:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by Ready2hearthetruth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave ole’ girl alone. Love doesn’t display what she has done to you. Unbuckle that leash that she has placed around your neck and get to steppin’. She’s keeping you on that chain because you allow it.
As for the girl you only want a piece of a** from, make sure that she knows it, or you may cause her pain. Please don’t allow your on and off again girl turn you into a person who purposely go around hurting other females because of what she has done to you. Heal your hurt, over time, and seek a person who is good to you and for you.
Be blessed.
2006-10-24 21:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by Decent 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get away from your 'ex' and stay away forever. There is no justification for hurting her intentionally and unnecessarily, and no matter how you 'feel' about her, things between you are apparently insane. Go away, let her be happier in the end, and then 'hook up' with whoever you like.
2006-10-24 21:31:56 · answer #4 · answered by Freak Of Nurture 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, i want to say i appreciate your honesty. most men would flat out lie. scond of all, i feel like two wrongs don't make it right. understand this it may hurt you to know that she cheated on you but trust me it hurts her more knowing you are still there by her side. i am a real woman, a mother of two. i cook, clean, do my boyfriend paper work, run errands, be a step mother to his two kids, loving, honest and well the list goes on and on. our relationship is on shaky grounds for more reasons than one and i know he's messing around. i haven't got the proof yet but i know. the thing is i love him enough to look past his faulrs and move on but do he love me enough to not hide things from me is the question? you two seem to have some type of connection. try to make things work.
2006-10-24 21:35:28 · answer #5 · answered by slimchuckie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stoop to her level. You would be not only a cheater, but a user. If she's treating you bad, break up with her and find yourself a nice girl.
2006-10-24 21:34:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
isay give your ex a chance marylou
2006-10-24 22:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by Marylou H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send your ex the cd by treisa the song "it's a shame....."
2006-10-24 21:31:47 · answer #8 · answered by non-curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do it.
2006-10-24 21:30:34 · answer #9 · answered by Alessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋