I'm in 8th grade, and the last time a guy said he liked me was in 5th grade(sadly). Almost all my friends have boyfriends, but I haven't. I don't think there is somthing really wrong with me, but now I'm not so sure. What can I do to get guys to like me, even as friends (somehow, whenever I'm around them, I always shut up, and can't think of anything intelligent to say, even though I'm really loud around my friends) Advice, please. thanks.
2006-10-24 13:33:43 · 12 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Hmm. The problem is I don't really know how to flirt (never really done it before). I don't want to act really slutty, though. And my bra size won't help- I'm like a 32 AA (sadly).
2006-10-24 13:41:50 · update #1
I know it shouldn't matter, etc... And its not like I'm really going to DO anything, I just sort of want a bf for the sake of having a bf. And I just feel really left out and stuff for not having one. (I realize that I sound incredibly self-absorbed and materialistic, etc..., but I'm a 13 yr old girl, and these things matter to me, and is hard to ignore/forget.
2006-10-24 13:56:58 · update #2
Don't worry about not having a boyfriend so much. In time you will find a guy good for you. Don't do something just because everyone else is. They best way to get noticed by guys, and not the sleazy ones that may want you for the wrong reasons, is to be confident in yourself, and look nice. And by nice I don't mean a face slathered in makeup (less makeup, and the natural look is really a good thing) and clothes that show more body then actually cover it. I know alot of girls do that and get attention, but its bad attention and it makes guys think that you want something that you really don't. Just be who you are. Alot of guys like girls who are confident and happy with themselves.
Edit-Don't worry about your bra size, if a guy is judging you by your bra size then he obviously only wants one thing. Besides, your still young and your body is still growing, you may think they are small right now, but you never know how much they may grow.
2006-10-24 13:43:58 · answer #1 · answered by Chelle's Belle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ways to get guys to like you: be your self #1 be extra nice and think of stuff to say before you go up to the guy also wear a push up bra to make your breasts look bigger even that shouldn't matter also ask the guy if he wants to do something have confidence in yourself :) good luck
2006-10-24 14:40:26 · answer #2 · answered by Jess P 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you dont have to have one
but you would like one
first of all you start with a friendship and if you really feel a special connection you can be bf and gf
but thats not what it is about i think you just have to get guy friends but never do anything you dont want to
good friends are hard to find and they take time but once you find them you are more happy with yourself and towards others
2006-10-24 16:11:03 · answer #3 · answered by flores337 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
each physique will answer some thing effective and romantic like her humorousness or her smile, yet i'm going to be honest we be conscious the boobs first. except we are finding from at the back of, then we be conscious her ***. yet after seems, we be conscious style and sweetness in the way she acts. If she's cool, and he or she acts stylish like a woman, then it quite is directly to character. character likes are diverse with each and each guy, yet generally we'd like somebody who's relaxing to be around and drama loose.
2016-10-16 09:00:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try to just spend more time around them. For example in my school which girls are friends with guys you just talk but not many of the people have boy(girl) friends. Also, if you just ask yourself they will notice or if your funny
2006-10-24 15:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by Austin B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen you need to just go to school and be your self and be nice and do not act like a slut or anything like that sooner a boy will come and talk to you but at 13 you really dont need to worry about a boy freind really to me you need to waint till you are in high school and 16 before you need to get real involed with a boy but do not do nothing with no one till you are married
2006-10-24 14:26:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
put yourself out there more go to more parties and get togethers with friends dont just hang around with the same group eventually someone will like you
2006-10-24 14:15:31 · answer #7 · answered by W H I T E [ s k y * ] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey little lady, dont fret it happens to everyone..... just be yourself. then when someone does like u in the way youre looking for, theyl like the real YOU. therez freedom in being unique and not being afraid to love yourself.... and never stop smiling. there will always be someone more afraid or more alone than you.... good luck.
2006-10-24 13:52:57 · answer #8 · answered by genieejj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to flirt. Treat them nicer than you usually would with people you don't talk to much. It's nice to laugh, smile, and be happy around them. It shows that you're interested.
2006-10-24 13:36:58 · answer #9 · answered by aSnxbByx113 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wait till you blossom than the boys will be all over yu
2006-10-25 09:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by darkluke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋