say your boyfriend is being mean and says he didn't mean to be mean and then says sorry, does he really mean that?
2006-10-24 13:29:55 · 14 answers · asked by babyfacetori 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it depends on how many times the same thing happens. i had a boyfriend like that and he was horrible to me sometimes and i realized that he's one of those people that often says things they don't mean and do things that they regret later because he always apologized afterwards. and i forgave him every time. of course we broke up because of it cuz he was mean to me again and i told him that i couldn't take it. naturally he said he was sorry later on but its just stifling to have to live with that. i'm much more content with him as a friend and we're still really close. i still love him and all but the whole situation was only hurting me and i never knew if he meant what he said. so we just ended it and i think we're both happier that way. anyway, long story short, if he did it like, once or twice then fine, its annoying but u gotta confront him about it. if its a continuous thing that's been going on for months like it was for me, u gotta take a bigger step than that because in the end you'll realize that it isn't worth it and you don't want to deal with it. but for now, give ur guy a chance. i'm sure he's trying hard for you. good luck!! hope everything works out for the both of you!! :)
2006-10-24 13:36:38 · answer #1 · answered by jgmice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what. Maybe he didn't mean to be mean. But it depends on how he was being mean. if he touched you, I don't care what his "excuse" was its not right and you need to forget about this guy. Any boy that hits, pushes, etc. a girl does not deserve her. So you need to think about that. Go to a school counselor, if you are still in school, or find a help line in your community. Your mom is a wonderful person to discuss this matter with also. Good luck and be a strong and powerful woman!
2006-10-24 13:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on what he did. If it was physical then yes for that moment, till he does it again. You do not want a abusive relationship cause take it from someone that knows it will only get worse then you will be scared to leave. Get out of it while you can and find one that will treat you the way that you should be. Look at all the women that are killed daily by abusive relationships.
Good luck
2006-10-24 13:35:13 · answer #3 · answered by ocean1moon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares if he means it, if he is a mean tempered person he will always be a mean tempered person. Sorry is just a word, it is the actions that count. If it was an isolated incidence forgive forget and move on, if it happens all the time lose him.
2006-10-24 13:32:05 · answer #4 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's 14 yes he meant it. If he's 24, no he didn't mean it and is just backtracking for being an aZZhole.
2006-10-24 13:32:08 · answer #5 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is most likely sorry. But if he continues it to do it, then I say dump him
"Men are like jewelry.
We dont really need them
but its nice to have them"
2006-10-24 13:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he prob knows he is Being mean
2006-10-24 13:31:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him wow if he is being mean all the time is it worth it find someone who will appreciate you
2006-10-24 13:32:49 · answer #8 · answered by just wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all the time but if he doesn't do it again then he probably dose. Or if he takes to s lovely dinner.
2006-10-24 13:35:20 · answer #9 · answered by Cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but I know he most liklely does not leave him but be careful he could hurt you
2006-10-24 13:32:07 · answer #10 · answered by dragonrider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋