She keeps telling me her problems as if I can be her shrink and she got a lot of them, and I had enough and want to get rid of her but she keeps calling and bothering me till I answer her and doesnt want to understand , what to do?
2006-10-24 13:17:03 · 7 answers · asked by fuschiafish 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
It may sound mean or rude but you have to be up front with the girl and tell her like it is if want her to get the point clear and for sure. She may hate you but so be it she will get over it and find someone else who will listens to her problems. I had this problem before so I can relate to your situation and know what it is like.
2006-10-24 16:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be kind and listen for a little while. God knows she needs a friend. Tell her your problems, then find some fun things to do together and this will make the problems go away for a time.
2006-10-24 20:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by gagam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, it may true that she's been experiencing probs and needed a listener and it happens that u may be fed up of the same approach or not your forte to do counselling, instead, tell her to try consulting a shrink or anything related...
2006-10-24 23:46:39 · answer #3 · answered by ♥vanillakiss 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best her, defy her commands, defeat her purpose. Lamens terms, beat the crap out her. Normally violence is never the answer, however in a situation so pathetic as this, it is called for, she must learn from her mistake!
2006-10-24 20:28:43 · answer #4 · answered by Montana R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would be honest with her and tell her that you do not want to be bothered by her anymore, that if she needs help then you suggest she see a professional.
2006-10-24 20:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by Sheri 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound tell her in the Nice's way to leave u alone and to ask her nicely is that OK
2006-10-24 20:21:52 · answer #6 · answered by joel g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she must be abit simple, for wanting to be friends with you, she's asking for help, and your just trying to tell her where to go, and by the way.
since you don;t like her, and can't be bothered with her, how is she your friend?
2006-10-24 20:25:17 · answer #7 · answered by Brutal_Yet_Beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋