We went out for nearly two years since 7th grade and now we're in 9th. We've gone through a lot but this past few months I was kind of in a funk but I never told him and he broke up with me because we lost a little bit of 'communication' and 'didn't have anything in common' anymore. During our last weeks together we suffered a lot because we both made each other cry because of our jealousy and he admitted his to me but I never got a chance to explain myself and why I was acting so distant.
It stinks that we go to the same school because every day I see him and I try and try to get over him but I only end up thinking of good times and how much I'll miss him, then how stupid he was and how I should be better off without him. The thing is that I still can't get over him, I feel like a part of me is still with him. He told me that he 'wants us to be friends' and that he'll 'always love me' and even asked for a 'last kiss'. Why can't I stop obsessing over him? Is it because he was my bf?
2006-10-24 13:00:46 · 4 answers · asked by punkerbelle666 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It hurts me to even see him now, it sounds emo but yeah my heart kinda breaks inside to see him laugh with other girls. I don't know if it's jealousy but I just miss him so much!! I want to get over him, but at the same time I want him back and start over. I know you don't get second chances...but then what should I do?
2006-10-24 13:02:25 · update #1
you remind me of me when i was your age and im only 22 now. its a hard stage to pass to tell you the truth, emotions are much more intense when you are high school. guys are the first to get over relationships because us girls confuse love and wanting to be loved. guys will enjoy you hanging on when they have moved on and so you really need to have nothing to do with him. of course you can be friends but not just yet, you need to find yourself again. the person you were when you were independant and didnt have any guy to lean on. if you just be strong for now and let him go, it will be hard at first, but in the end you will be much happier and a happy girl will attract many more guys! yeah so just be strong during this time and stay away from him, and time will heal!
2006-10-24 13:17:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to follow your heart. it does seem like yall went through a lot. and when you really love someone like that, it does hurt to see him being happy with other girls. maybe you should give him a second chance. i mean guys will always mess up just as well as girls. i mean but if he didn't just terribly hurt you to a point that you don't know what love is about, then i would give him another chance. ive been through alot with my ex and now i got a baby on the way by him. he cheated on me, left me for another girl and we lost communication. we broke up before i knew i was pregnant and now we trying to work things out. i keep obsessing over him and i love him and i truly thing we can make it work. pray about it.
2006-10-24 20:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him, there are alot more guys out there. Somebody else will come along and sweep you off your feet. And another one after that. If you two were meant for each other, Your paths will once again connect down the road. Get out there and smell the flowers. concentrate on school, and keep your spirits up.
2006-10-24 20:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by Speedbuggy43 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears to me you have deep feelings for him and it could be the dreaded four letter word called LOVE. You may not know it, but you could possibly be in love with this guy. I am not trying to be corny just honest. I read your question very well and it looks to me like your in love with him. He probably is in love with you too.
I suggest you talk to him alone. Find a place that is very discreet and away from the general public. Communication is very important. You are very young but you could possibly be in love with the guy. good luck and whatever you do don't get pregnant. Your way too young for that!!
2006-10-24 20:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by PsychoSam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋