ok well my ex came over last week and i thould my boyfriend about it and he got mad he said he chouldent belive that i hang out with him the point is that im really good friends with my ex and i both love them both but my problem is that he dosnt whant me to hang out with my ex anymore or he will brake up with me i dont no if he think ill chet on him i all ready said i whouldnet do that plz help im so confuzed!!! on what to say what to do im soo upset!! help!
2006-10-24 12:48:55 · 9 answers · asked by sweetsuger241 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell your bf to get over it or you'll dump him and that you've already promised that you wouldn't cheat on him and that, that should be enough for him. If he doesn't trust you then maybe you two wern't meant for eachother.
2006-10-24 12:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by Plague92 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being good friends with an ex can be intimidating because you have a connection with the ex and it can get in the way of your current relationship. I would say decrease the contact with the ex for your current relationship's sake. If your ex is a true friend and really loves you as a friend, he will understand and appreciate what the other guy is feeling.
2006-10-24 20:01:18 · answer #2 · answered by eehco 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm this is the 20th century so therefore you can hang out with whoever and whenever. Besides you need to get your ex and your boyfriend and explain what is going on to your BF then your boyfriend will be less confused
By the way your BF has security problems as far as I'm concerned I wouldn't care if my bf talked with whoever.
if this guy doesn't work out then who cares it means the next one is meant to be right.
I suggest you use lavender essential oil when you take a bath because it will be very soothing since you are upset
2006-10-24 19:56:55 · answer #3 · answered by Sakura Haruno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your boyfriend that nothing with you and your ex will happen the only one i love is you. i wouldnt ever cheat on you tell hin that your ex id like one of your girlfriends and tell youex that were just friends. and if your boyfriend dont cair then dump him cause its his loss your not going to hook up with him while you guys are going out.
2006-10-24 19:57:23 · answer #4 · answered by divachick95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not confused you want to have your cake and eat it too.you could keep hanging around your ex.and let your man go.there is a reason why the other is referred to as ex.how come he does not hang with you and his girl at the same time.you choose to disrespect your relationship.he does not.
2006-10-24 19:59:16 · answer #5 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is absolutey no reason on earth why you two should be hanging out. NONE! you aren't with him for a reason. you are with your boyfriend. do you plan on marrying this new boyfriend one day? because this type of behavior is disrespectful. it's you and your partner till death in all things. if you can't commit now.....why would you stick around? don't waste his time.
2006-10-24 19:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
explain to him that you arent going to cheat on him if he doesnt care and stiil says the same thing break up wit him cause you dont want someone that doesnt trust you anyways
2006-10-25 17:46:48 · answer #7 · answered by <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bf has security issues. friends last forever. break it off w/ yer boy and maybe he'll become another good friends.
2006-10-24 19:52:53 · answer #8 · answered by lalapalooza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol. How old are you?
2006-10-24 19:54:10 · answer #9 · answered by missdontgivafukusa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋