I have a best friend that I have known since I was 10 I somehow feel she is jelous of me because i have a better body then her and I am taller than her I dont mean to offend her but she is chubby and really short ..... and everytime we go shopping she always says that I look fat and ugly in the clothes I try on ..... What can I do without hurting her feelings?
2006-10-24 12:45:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her that she is rude for saying that about you. She is trying to make you insecure about yourself because she is insecure about herself.
2006-10-24 12:48:56 · answer #1 · answered by miss_mini_maddy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should keep her as a friend but find a new shopping buddy one that will like to play dress up and complement u.when she ask why the change tell it was because she was hurting ur feelings and u figured she didn't want to go shopping with u anymore.maybe she will realize her mistake and apologize.good luck and dont let anyone bring ya down for being who u r
2006-10-24 19:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to say anything to hurt her feelings hunny...just smile and say ....ok....she may be a little jealous of you and maybe wishes that she was thinner and looked good in clothes just like you, if you feel that she is insulting you when you go shopping with her just go on your own next time, but dont fall out with her, she's your friend
2006-10-24 22:26:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on wat message u want to tell her ..
U want her to know she is not as good as u r or do u just want her to stop saying those words.
If u dun like wat she said, then u should tell her the truth. Say that it hurt ur feelings to hear those words. Say that i don't agree with u, it fits me.
If u think that u have a better body, then why would u wanna say it out? Just show her the best of u. Even she dun realize, the people beside both of u will make her realize.
2006-10-24 19:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by Panda 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you go try clothes on compliment her. Tell her how great she looks in what she's wearing. I know I'm a guy so my advice probably sucks but its worth a shot right?
2006-10-24 19:50:41 · answer #5 · answered by Plague92 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you try on the clothes, and you like them, just tell her you like it and you're gonna buy it. She might even stop saying that. Give her a good clothing tip.
2006-10-24 19:51:31 · answer #6 · answered by SuWizzle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
help her find clothes that fit her body type and make her look HER best. she is trying to emulate you. and since you don't have the same build...the things you like may look really bad on her.
2006-10-24 21:22:16 · answer #7 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not meaning to sound horrible but your friend sounds bitter and jealouse. next time she says such a thing just say "well i think i look f*ckin great" and go to the pay desk and buy it. she might think twice next time! good luck chick!
2006-10-24 19:58:01 · answer #8 · answered by loz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just take as a human psychology and don't care about her matters about your life styles.
2006-10-25 01:32:12 · answer #9 · answered by digendra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she's being hurtfull to you. That should either shut her up, or else she'll say what's really on her mind.
2006-10-25 05:57:31 · answer #10 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋