I just started hanging out with a new group of friends. Although i didn't see them regularly last year, they were really nice to me, and we hung out occasionally. NOw, it seems everyone hates me. they all whisper things behind my back and try their hardest so i don't get involved in their group activities. WHat should i do? i don;t really have another group of friends i'm that close with. Should i just ignore these actions, or confront them, and possibly start a scene or some drama, that might or might not be important to these ppl? its never been this way with me...i'm a very people friendly person, but this year, things seem to be taking a turn for the worse.
2006-10-24 12:42:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You shouldn't be friends with people that are rude and selfish find good new friends that will invite you to do things with them and that they won't ignore you! Good Luck on that!
2006-10-24 12:49:19 · answer #1 · answered by girlygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should leave this group, by the way they are treating you, they are not your friends.
A true friend will never do this to you, to find new people that are interested in what you are as a person join a club or group in something that you are interested in, you will find that friendships will blossom naturally, good luck and forget these people.
2006-10-24 19:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by wdj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, u r having around the same problem i had and what i did was confront them and tell them how i felt. Then when i was done i told them that i still wanted to be friends and if they wanted that too then i said that yall need to stop says stuff about me and acting like u hate me. If this doesn't work with ur problems then I'm sorry.
2006-10-24 19:51:52 · answer #3 · answered by monkeykiwi_me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, that is rough. if you're at school talk to a guidance conselor. these people seem really mean. you need to talk to someone else about it. and w/ making new friends, smile at someone, say hi, join a new group or activity or just try to get closer to some of your other friends. when you talk to the conselor ask them to ask the other people why they are treating you like this. sometimes it's rumors that you said this or someone else said so and so that wasn't true. look into this.
2006-10-24 19:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by kecr101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try to make a few more friends that aren't in that group so incase they do want you out of their group, you have other friends that you can trust.
2006-10-24 19:51:09 · answer #5 · answered by miss_mini_maddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If te people you hang out are good to you and they don't use you, hang out with them. When i first started to hang out with my best friend, people started nasty rumerz and wispered about it. My whole class were against my best friend. So hang out with the people u like. It will be better after words
2006-10-24 19:54:06 · answer #6 · answered by SuWizzle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is just ignore the comments. find another group if you are a people person.
2006-10-24 20:00:30 · answer #7 · answered by angelchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get new friends.
2006-10-24 19:46:59 · answer #8 · answered by masterurownmind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to new people...good luck...
2006-10-24 19:46:21 · answer #9 · answered by Me, Myself and I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋