I THINK IM PREGANT AND ME AND MY BOYFRIEND DID IT AND IM 13 YEARS OLD. WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-24 12:36:09 · 28 answers · asked by JESSICA R 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
go talkt to your parents NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-24 12:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best advice has been given already. You need to talk to your parents or guardian. Now is not the time to worry about being in trouble or getting yelled at. Matters will only get worse the longer that you put it off and if you are pregnant, which I sincerely hope you are not, then you need to be seen by an OB/GYN.
May I also ask how late your period is and when and what exactly did you do? I only ask to make sure that you actually know how it can or can not happen. Not passing judgement at all just know that some kids have inaccurate information and worry for nothing.
2006-10-24 19:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by Subi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey first of all your way too young to be having a baby! You have your whole life ahead of you and if you were going to participate in sex at an early age then why did you not use protection. Everything is going to be ok. This is not the end of the world, but you need to talk to your parents or which ever one your most comfortable talking to about these issues. You need to have your parents make you a doctors appointment right away so you can start on vitamins if your going to persue your pregnancy. I know this is going to be tough, I had to go through the same thing, not at 13, but at 16 and it was still hard. Find a right moment to confidently tell your parents and also your partners parents whats going on and try not to stress its not healthy. Good luck to you and your baby, It really is a blessing but your so young. I'll pray for you!
2006-10-24 19:43:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay sweetie..everything will be okay... just do not stress out... if you think your pregnant the best thing to do is tell a counsler at school to help you get to the doctor to make an appointment. If your parents will freak maybe you should all sit down together even your boyfriend and talk about what *YOU* want to do... . Good Luck>>>Amy
2006-10-24 19:42:50 · answer #4 · answered by Amy G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah! sweatheart i'm 14 and i think i would go crazy but if you are don't be scared do what you need to do but when it comes to raising him do it you'r self and not you'r mom or an aunt or somebody else because then that kid is going to be angry and then have no respect for you and the kid is going to get you into problems so don't be afraid that kid WILL thank you when he's grown up that YOU raised him and DON'T be afraid to ask for help from you' bor friend he may be a lot of help if he does't, know that you are a strong girl! good luck!
2006-10-24 19:46:07 · answer #5 · answered by Karel T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel terrible for you if you think you are, but you must TELL SOMEONE you will have many options like whether to go through with the pregnancy if its early days but you have to tell someone becuase I cant think about you going through all that fear alone. The sooner you get support, the better. It will make you feel awful and be no good for your baby to put yourself through all that stress and keep it a secret. You have to tell someone, pref. parents but dosent have to be. A doctor is a good option as they wont shout and scream at you, and will be able to tell your parents (as you will have to at some time) in a way that comes accross better than you can and they might be less mad at you.
Good luck if you are pregnant and you have all my sympathy :)
2006-10-24 19:43:56 · answer #6 · answered by Zinc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What in the hell are you doing being 13 and having sex? Let alone unprotected sex... Do you really think you're mature enough to responsible for the consiquences?? If you're not pregnant, I sure as hell hope this is a lesson for you to practice abstinance until you're old enough to make mature decisions... Also, I'd have a long conversation with your parents..
2006-10-24 19:40:02 · answer #7 · answered by Ash 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents first, you need to take a pregnancy test to be absolutely sure. Do not try to keep it a secret, you need all of the help that you can get now.
2006-10-25 02:29:36 · answer #8 · answered by ERIC W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg I'm your same age. dude why did you do it. will your mom get mad. why didn't you protect yourself. that's really important well how do you think i can help you . ummm if you want you can email me and we can talk there. but i need to know if your mom would totally get pist. especially if you are Latina like me. any ways don't abort ever.and don't try to give your child away.trust me wen you grow older you will regret you did that. and dude you just mest up you future. you should of waited til you got married or wen you had your own life. that's Wat I'm going to do. but i dot want children. well all i got to say is dude i hope you the best wishes and i hope you have a healthy child
ox ox â¥
2006-10-24 20:12:47 · answer #9 · answered by ♥FISH♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh geeze.
Get a pregnancy test or something. And don't do it without protection next time. In fact, don't do it at all (until you're old enough to realize the consequences). *rolls eyes*
2006-10-24 20:01:07 · answer #10 · answered by Aimers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry. You must be really scared. Please talk with an adult you trust. Hopefully this will be your parents, but a guidance counselor at school can help as well. You need to remember that things will work out. You have options, and you need to talk rationally about them. And if you aren't pregnant, please PLEASE get some birth control immediately. Babies are wonderful, but you don't need this at 13.
2006-10-24 19:59:51 · answer #11 · answered by micah's mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋