What do I do about some guy WHO WON"T LEAVE MY HOUSE???

Question

My best friend has a boyfriend who never leaves her alone, either of us.. He is like an annoying tumor that you can't get rid of... What do I do??

My bestfriend doesn't live with me but she wants to come over without him. He just doesn't get the message. All he does over here is sit on the couch and watch TV. Me and her both want time with just us but he always HAS to tag along..

Answer 1

Tell him,
and HER

You ahte to be a Btch but he needs to get out, and make other arrangements.

Honestly , tell both of them -

" Listen I understand you both want to be with eachother , but I don't want to be with BOTH of you, just JANE. And I think you need to stop coming over all the time, find a new place, and or just call before coming over.

Say Jane is not the only one who lives here, and as much as you enjoy his company , you also enjoy your space.

So from now on Just call jane and see what her plans are , but since he doesn;t pay rent , he's OUT. And if he does pay rent , then just tell him your both breaking up with him and he needs to move out.

Answer 2

Your friend needs to be able to get to your place without the tag a long. If he calls don't answer the phone. If he comes to the door. Don't answer it.
Have you come out and told the guy that he isn't welcomed there and that you need time alone with your friend, simple as that.
If he pushes....tell him you are serious and call the cops.
Can't your friend get away without him? Why doesn't she have freedom from him? Why does she put up with a guy who tags along all the time?? Sounds like your friend needs to find another bf.

Answer 3

I'm confused. So your best friend lives with you? If it's your BF's boyfriend and she doesn't live with you, then what's he doing at your house to begin with? Maybe he's askin' the Yahoo Community about his girlfriend's best friend who won't leave them alone. Is it just you that's annoyed or is your friend annoyed with him, too? Maybe it's just time to end all relationships and get that "space" that none of you seem to have in your lives.

Answer 4

You need to tell him to get out of your house when you want him out. It's your property, scare his butt of by threatening to get your dad or a call to the cops.
Anyway, if she's annoyed by him as well then she should probably breakup with him. It sounds like he's in an obsessive state of mind which can get dangerous.
Best to let the stalkers go rather then stick with them.

Answer 5

Based upon your additional details, I think your friend needs to tell him that she wants some alone time with you. Girl time! Every woman needs it. If he doesn't understand this then he isn't very sensitive to her needs & probably is not a very good boyfriend.

Answer 6

Why don't you politely tell him to Hit The Road. If that doesn't work, then throw his tail out or call the cops and tell them that you have an unwanted intruder in your house.

Answer 7

TELL HIM TO LEAVE. TELL YOUR FRIEND THAT YOU DONT WANT HIM THERE. IF SHE DOESNT LISTEN THEN ASK HER TO LEAVE TOO. IF SHE WANTS HIM GONE, SHE NEEDS TO TELL HIM. IF HE WONT LEAVE, CALL THE COPS AND GET A RESTRAINING ORDER!! MAKE HIM LEAVE. YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO WANT HIM GONE. DO IT FAST AND DO IT NOW. THAT IS THE WORST THING IN THE WORLD TO GO HOME AND HAVE SOMEONE THERE THAT YOU DONT WANT....AND HE DONT EVEN LIVE THERE? OH NO, HE'S GOTTA GO!!! HE SHOULD RESPECT YOUR WISHES. THEN AGAIN, IT COULD BE YOUR FRIENDS FAULT, SHE NEEDS TO BE THE ONE TO TELL HIM!

Answer 8

Well since its your friends boyfriend its sorta difficult. So either get you friend to dump him or just dont let him in. Say that 'girl things' are going on. or something.

Answer 9

Talk about tampons, periods, Vagisil- that'll freak him out. If nothing else, tell him you forgot your medication and you are feeling somewhat homicidal.

Answer 10

if he is violating your privacy, CALL THE POLICE
if not just tell him hes annoying and to go away

good luck
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