I have this friend and this year shes acting all stuck up and all she talks about at lunch is her breast, her butt, and sex. Shes really starting to annoy me. We've been friends for a while but shes seriously getting on my nerves and some guys talk to her because she always acts so trashy. Then she can be so rude to me or she can be nice.
I don't know wats wrong with her but its really driving me crazy (other people to)
Should i just ignore her or something?
I have to sit right by her and i don't know wat to do.
Please help me! thanks if you can.
2006-10-24 12:28:17 · 20 answers · asked by CheerChic1022 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
The only reason people act like that is because they are unhappy with themselves. I would confrunt her and tell her how i felt, you should do the same. I know excactly how you feel..when i was in school, i had a few "Friends" like that. Hope all works out hun!
2006-10-24 12:32:32 · answer #1 · answered by It's Robyn! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the reason she is acting this way is because she is liking the attention from boys. I wouldn't ditch her, but I would let her know that even though the attention is nice, and even if it's just innocent, she could get a reputation that she will never be able to get rid of. And then, just by being her friend, you may get it too. Just remember, in the end, guys always do respect the ones with self respect.
2006-10-24 19:35:27 · answer #2 · answered by lil_hem_n_va 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that her behavior is affecting your friendship. If shes a true friend she'll realize what shes doing and stop. No one should have to pretend to be nice to someone. Friends have ups and downs, but what makes a friendship is the fact that you can get through that time of trials and tribluations because you are friends. Just tell her how you feel, but that you still want to be friends, but something has to change.
2006-10-24 19:32:28 · answer #3 · answered by ~MandiNic~ 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend that has changed a lot since i moved away. talk to her about it when shes not around other people because that is when she will be real with you. tell her how you feel about her actions, dont fight with her though its only going to frustrate you both more. if you have trouble talking to her in person write a letter. dont let distance come between you, people change, but the heart does not. and deep down im sure she cherishes your friendship, and if shes a real friend she will hear you out and want to work things out.
2006-10-24 19:35:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably likes the attention she is getting by acting like this. Just ignore you and she may realize that the attention is negative.
2006-10-24 19:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by shootingstar0212 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i would do is i would go up to her and say you are really starting to get on my nerves and until you aren't asstuck up and rude we are over (not in a brake up way) hope my answer helped
P.S. i would say that to my friends if they were like that. (i kinda am though)
2006-10-24 19:40:55 · answer #6 · answered by LIL B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she has changed quite a lot and its clear you arent happy with that. To be honest she dosent sound like a very interesting person to talk to and if you ditch her it might actually make her think about her actions........ppl who disrespect you try and do it again and again and again unless you do something about it.
2006-10-24 19:36:48 · answer #7 · answered by Zinc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a phase. I'm sure she'll get over it. Tryst me, my friends went through the same thing.
2006-10-24 21:32:56 · answer #8 · answered by Pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hormones u all go through everyone deals in a diffrent way she will get over it unless she becomes the school slut than either you join in or find new friends
2006-10-24 20:16:52 · answer #9 · answered by ♥me♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ye i went through that with my best friend don't worry hopefully she is just going through a phase it might feel like a long time but she will get over it....
its annoyin but don't worry
2006-10-24 21:24:45 · answer #10 · answered by W H I T E [ s k y * ] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋