can i trust him agian?

Question

i recently found some msn convos on my fiance'es laptop that can be classified in the cheating catagory i confronted him about it i guess we kinda worked things out we have a 1yr old daughter his terms were to never talk to these girls agian i was there when he told the one and i told off the other one myself but hes never showed me that they are blocked and deleted on the account that this happened on (he has like 3 msn accounts) and the chick that i talked to myself is still in his friends page on my space i dont know if i can ever trust him agian but i really dont have any other place to go and i still love him i dont know what to do anymore :(

Answer 1

You always got a choice you might say you don't but you do! Sometime we got to go beyond and get what we want! You sound like you are not inlove anymore! Why waste time you already have your answer.

Answer 2

You forgave him because you love him - not because you know for a fact that he won't cheat again. The thoughts are still likely to be in his mind, and YOU shouldn't have to be the one to tell the girls to back off.

There isn't much to say when you have no other place to go- and your fiance probably knows that too. You have to put your foot down, show him that you're not gonna tolerate it- you'll always have a friend or close relative that you can go to. You're not even married yet- your relationship is not the way it's supposed to be. Think about your own life, and your daughter, before you think about having to forgive him..........again, and again, and again, and again, and again..................

Good luck.

Answer 3

i think u should delete all of them yourself and check like twice a week to see if he done added them or not,and as far as can you trust him again the answer is i dont know because it could go either way.

Answer 4

He does not sound too trustworthy to me.

Answer 5

no