my boyfriend keeps asking me if i have cheated on him but he should know i have not because i dont go any where he is always with me or im with my mum i think he has cheated but i dont know how to find out
2006-10-24 12:08:03 · 34 answers · asked by HARLUN S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i hate to say it hun but i agree with the others if he is cheating he will blame you to make himself feel better
2006-10-24 13:21:28 · answer #1 · answered by only me 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it does sound that he may be a little insecure and i suspecting it, maybe it was something you did/said that set the alarm bells off in his head for example? Has he been hurt before at all?
If you think he has cheated/cheating, then the best thing to do is keep quiet about it and gather as much evidence up as you need without mentioning it to him, the signs will show if he is/has cheated. (sudden changes in his personality/routine etc.)
That way, you can hopefully find out from this if he has/hasn't cheated on you. On the other hand maybe both of you are little insecure?
2006-10-24 12:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by bekibeau21 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a big red flag. You need to put a stop to this immediately or end the relationship. He is insecure and you can not be his security blanket. The acquisations will never end if you attempt to justify so don't waste your time. He is testing your boundaries and trying to see what he can get away with. He is being manipulative and controlling and this a warning sign for domestic violence. If you don't belive me, search the web.
2016-03-28 06:33:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like a relationship you might want to get out of. No offense, but when someone starts accusing you of things for no reason it is usually because they are doing it to begin with. If you are a good woman, you don't need to justify or defend yourself. You know you are right when you are right. You can either stick around for more accusations, possible heartbreak (to find out he is cheating), or you can walk out the door and see what the future brings. Good luck!!!
2006-10-24 12:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by Michaela 4120 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It looks to me like you two have a real issue with TRUST.
You don't trust him and thinks he is cheating on you and he doesn't trust you since he thinks you are cheating on him.
Have you thought about sitting down with him and communicating with him, in other words, talking to him about the trust issue? Lay the cards on the table and find out if you two really love each other and trust one another. You will never have peace and understanding unless you talk to each other about your worries and problems. Good luck with your relationship!!
2006-10-24 12:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by PsychoSam 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You won't like my answer, but I will tell you just the same.
Believe me, you do NOT need a possessive boyfriend who does not trust you. Possessive people want to put their girlfriends in a pretty little cage and keep them there, all for themselves. It can not only feel confining, but after a while, friends start to dwindle away!
Find another boyfriend with whom you can share mutual trust!
2006-10-24 12:12:51 · answer #6 · answered by catherine02116 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well to show him that ur not cheating show him how much you love him with little unexpected kisses, sweet hugs, and little gifts, show him affection, let him know how interested you are in him
now if you think he is cheating, dont assume anything unless you are for sure. overreacting off of an assumption is worthless. ask him if he loves you and if he would ever leave you or any little tricks like that you could read him if hes lying
hope this helped, good luck :)
2006-10-24 12:13:22 · answer #7 · answered by felicia fo sho 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Girl guys are like that they say your cheating when they're the ones cheating on you you need to sit down and talk to him.
2006-10-24 12:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't control his thoughts. If you didn't sleep with anyone else, then there's only so many ways that you can tell him that. If he keeps askin' you, then he obviously doesn't trust or believe you which may have you re-thinkin' your perspective as far as your relationship with this guy goes. Why are you thinking that he cheated on you?
2006-10-24 12:11:39 · answer #9 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
unless he's very insecure and thinks you're cheating every second you're not with him, I would suggest he's the one who either has cheated, or intends to.
Thoughts of cheating don't pop into your head for no reason at all, where there's smoke there's fire and it would appear he's holding a smoking gun
2006-10-24 12:19:12 · answer #10 · answered by kim0na 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
boys are crazy. somethimes i dont understand them. it's like shakespeares "othello" the girl gets accused of cheating because the best friend told the boyfriend that she was. either thats the fact or maybe he is cheating. don't let him ruin you, though, i believe that all young women let guys bring them down. You'll find the one for you... trust me.
2006-10-24 12:12:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋