What are some signs that your significant other is cheating?

Question

I think my boyfriend still communicates and might even be having phone/text sex with his previous girlfriend. He says he is not but I have that feeling that he might not be telling the truth.

Answer 1

if you have that feeling then he probably is....here's one thing that i learnt...when you suspect someone is cheating on you the right thing to do is ask b/c it will just tear you up inside, if they tell you their not wich most of the time they do...then the best thing to do is to just go with your gut feelings...meaning if you still have that feeling then i strongly suggest you act as if your not worried about it anymore...that way if he is cheating you'll be two steps ahead of him....but long as you keep confronting him about it...then he'll be two steps ahead of you... b/c he already knows that you suspect him of cheating....and he'll be way more careful at not being caught, so just pretend you forgot all about it....and trust me if he is indeed cheating...he will get his own self caught....but don't confront him on it anymore unless you have evidence....b/c you don't want to accuse him and then come to find out that he never cheated....so make sure you know what your doing b/c you don't want to push him away for nothing...but if he is cheating he will get caught... b/c what goes around comes around..good luck!

Answer 2

Your intuition will tell you when things he says and does are a bit off. If he lies or says things that don't seem right. If he can't give a believable explanation to where he's been. If he has a alternate email that you don't know about or he won't let you read his emails. If he doesn't let you look at his cell phone or quickly deletes messages or received call numbers from it. If he answers the phone and takes it to another room so you can't hear. If his paycheck hours don't match the time he was gone. The most obvious is if he gets crabs and you haven't had sex with anyone else or slept in a bed that someone else had just slept in. These are all I can think of now. Hope he's not cheating on you.

Answer 3

This situation could send you being someone you are not. Just brace yourself first. your having feelings and it could either be 1) You are right. He is a low down dirty dog OR 2) You are scared of this happeing and you dont trust any one.

Think about this situation. You do need to feel comfortable so it is cool that you are asking questions. I would say that the only way to know for sure is to Ask him outright. First point of call. If you still feel this way trust yourself and find a way to do your own investegations. if he is guilty after you asked hime i think he would be gaurding that phone like there is no tomorrow or he will erase all evidence and leave it lying around knowing that your gonna look at it the first chance you have. get someone you know to call him while you are there and suss out his reaction. is he straight forward or is he sly? Be where you are not meant to be, check the bills but at the end of the day honey you could get so involved with trying to catch him that you loose yourself. If you cant trust him you must have a reason so honour yourself and find another.

Answer 4

Well if you think he is cheating on you then you need to let him go. Unless you have given him a reason to then you need to work it out. If you are always asking him if he is cheating on you than you are planting a seed for him to do so because he is going to get tried of being accused of it and he will start doing it.
Step back and take a look and see if you have been doing that senses you two have been together. If you have You need to stop. Or if he is used to having sex and you are not given it to him than of course he is going to look around until you can show him it is not all about the sex.
But, to answer your question you can tell if he is not wanting to send time with you and you see him out later with someone else.
Or if he come over smelling like some other girl. Then there is the lipstick on his shirt or neck, chick,chest, or even well you know where.
But if you do not trust him why are you staying with him?

Answer 5

Text sex huh? If that's true, he should go for a psychiatric evaluation. I would say that if he comes home, and you want to have sex with him, and he turns it down... he might be cheating. What red blooded male turns down sex when the female offers? NONE OF THEM. It might mean that he just had some and isn't ready to go... or he smells like a woman "down there". Good luck.. I hope for the best.

Answer 6

You should know when he is lying. Sounds like he could be. Why don't you both sit down and have a chat and bring everything out on the table. You are going to have to have solid evidence before you can accuse him of cheating. Have you thought about a private investigator. Costly yes, but they generally do a pretty good job and find out what is happening.

Good Luck and please try to talk to him. That would be the smartest thing to do.

Answer 7

Has he changed any of his normal patterns or routines? Is he concerned about his looks more? Does he not want to do things with you that you normally had done in the past?

Changes in this area might be a sign of some form of cheating. If it isn't physical between them it might at least be emotional.

Answer 8

well from personal experience, go with ur gut feelings and instincts. your gut feeling is usually right. symptoms r they shower more, use more after shave, have 2 work late, call and say there is a meeting, or they have 2 go out of town, etc.hope this isnt happening to u, cause its the most screwed up thing that can happen within a relationship. good luck sweetie!

Answer 9

hiding the phone, text and phone calls erased when you know there should be plenty. Turning his phone off when you are around. Aggitated or nervous if you touch his phone. Doesn't leave phone in your sight. Phone always on silent or vibrate. Need I say more? I feel for you honey and hope that all goes well with you.

Answer 10

well a womans intuition is the best to follow so ur probably right but just to make sure check his phone when hes not looking if you see a number he calls often write it down no matter if its a guys name he might be hiding it under another name but call it from another phone mute it and see if you hear a girls voice and make sure you block the number wen you call.