i just dont understand my wife 1 min shes all lovely then its like BANG! you said what what your looking at her for i know pmt and stay wellllll clear but what the hell i just dont understand please help any nice advice please would be gratefull!!????!!!???!??!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?
2006-10-24 11:43:31 · 22 answers · asked by chris b 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I feel sorry for guys. I am a woman - most of the time pretty calm and stable, then sometimes I flip! Sometime I don't even know why!
I think there is no hope for men to understand women... We're are a little weird!
We say 'fine' when we really mean, 'if you are not intelligent enough to realise I'm so pissed-off with you, then just forget it!'.
I'd say, stop trying to figure us out... Just try to keep us happy, don't argue when we're in a mood, put the toilet seat down when you've finished and pick your own clothes up.
I'll stop now, there's just no hope really!
Only kidding!
Hang in there mate - best to tell her how lost you feel and ask her to help you understand - maybe she'll respond!
2006-10-24 11:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by speckie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think men will ever really understand women, or vice versa. Everyone is a unique person. It is more about respect. If there is a mutual respect between two people, they will get along. As for men being wrong, not all women feel this way. It is a knee jerk reaction that women have when in arguments with men. It is the same when men always think women have pms whenever they are mad, not true.
2016-03-28 06:32:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think us women make it very hard for you guys to understand us and I feel sorry for you! PMT is very unfortunate but it's there in all its glory! You just have to say "yes dear" and try not to take it personally. Apparently, Evening Primrose Oil helps if you take it consistently over a few weeks or so. Don't try and understand a woman with PMT, just compliment her, tell her she's really pretty and let it all go in one ear and out the other.
2006-10-24 11:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by Helen B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you realize that PMS can be going on for a while before the cycle itself shows up. Also, after the cycle is complete do you realize the toll it has taken on her body? Is she overwhelmed with work? The children? Housework? Listen to her. Somewhere in her fussing she is screaming for help about what is "eating" her up. What does she complain about the most? Is she always tired? Under pressure because of bills? You are just the punching board. But really she could be trying to get you to "hear" her.
2006-10-24 11:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by Onjel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No 2 women are 'the same,' they just share similar traits.
The one to ask 'how to understand your wife,' is your Wife.
Your question, beyond the obvious, is as clear as mud. Sorry.
If you need help understanding her, then seek help together. It's a pretty good way to show to her that 'at least, you want to understand,' and 'want to make things work for the better between you both' ...No?
Sash.
2006-10-24 14:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but, "why can't women understand men.? It's an on going thing. I don't have pmt.
2006-10-24 12:13:25 · answer #6 · answered by Jeanette 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 thigs mate to bear in mind there is love and there is lust , most women dont unerstand the lust part its a man thing , but if you love her just try and keep your llust to your self or ou can try and talk to her and explaine about a mans need for lust , but take my advice hey dont understand , so just keep looking t the porn on the net and the tastybirds on the tv and keep your LOVE with your woman going . life wihouta oving woman is crap
2006-10-24 13:02:15 · answer #7 · answered by El Diablo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah the age old question! some women are just plain mental! i luckily for my fella at least. dont suffer from pmt. he can normally turn my bad mood around by making me laugh, so my advice to you is make her giggle,
2006-10-24 11:51:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.
We come from different planets (or might as well) use the same words but speak a different language.
2006-10-24 11:46:30 · answer #9 · answered by cate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a possibility that she is suffering from depression. Has anything changed for her or with you recently? How long has she been this way? Is it a sudden change? Other than that I can't really say what may be going on with her.
2006-10-24 11:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋