she was married in march 2006, after she was married she said nothing between us will change. we havent spend anytime together since her wedding. she missed my birthday, she wasnt there when i needed her. please world tell what i should do.
2006-10-24 11:18:05 · 5 answers · asked by rhinesstone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, it depends. If she's been on her honeymoon and busy working on her marriage, I might give her a break and call her and ask when the two of you could get together. If she doesn't commit to getting together, then I'd let the relationship go. Did she marry a man who controls her, maybe, and she isn't allowed to see her friends? That would be sad, but it happens. In that case, maybe you can be there when her marriage falls apart...it will. I am assuming you were in her wedding? I'm really sorry. Sometimes these things do happen.
2006-10-24 11:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's really your best friend, she always will be, even if you go through stages of life at different times. She's just married, has lots of new demands and things in her life. Cut her some slack, grow up a little. I've had friends for 25-30 years, and we all go through different phases. Sometimes we'll be close for several years, and then our lives take different directions. But they are still my friends. Being a true friend means not demanding that someone does what you want all the time, but it's a give and take situation. Be patient, she does and will appreciate you all the more for it.
2006-10-24 18:25:40 · answer #2 · answered by orphanannie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know ... I had that problem when I got married . I sort of stuck my friends on a back burner . However they are still my friends & they understand I am married with a family now . WE sort of laugh cause if we dont talk for a few weeks we just pick up where we left off. Thats us though & not you .
So what you should do maybe is talk to your friend & tell her " I realize you are married but just cause you are married doesnt mean we cant talk like we use to & I need you to help me with stuff going on in my life " Its ok to tell your friends " I love you " I tell my friends that all the time lol
2006-10-24 18:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by mommaknowsbest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is married which means her life routine has changed but if u really like her and u dont wanna loose her,then dont let her go,keep visiting her,phone her from a while to a while,make sure she is ok coz am sure she didnot forget about u this fast and am sure she still have this good memories about u so dont make it only memories,all what u have to do is accept that her life has changed but dont let her go
2006-10-24 19:39:27 · answer #4 · answered by Tara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes married now let her go
2006-10-24 18:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by Angel. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋