I do everything for my boyfriend. I just wont let him treat me likeg im nothing an when he does ill nag at him an he hates it. when we first got together 1 year ago he said hell never let me go because 6 years ago we lost eachother, but the other day we were talking kinda mad an he said i dont care i dont wanna stay with one peson the rest of my life. i dont know if he only has me around for the time being but i want marriage later on in the years. Am i just someone for now? Will he forgive me for the accusesing an nagging I used to do?
2006-10-24 11:13:28 · 13 answers · asked by christina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
All I can pass on to you is the best relationship advice I have ever been given by other women:
When he tells you what he wants and doesn't want, believe him.
You cannot change a man, you cannot change his mind, his personality or his wants. If he says he does not want to marry you, or have kids with you, he's telling you the truth.
Maybe someday his views might change on their own but you cannot change them for him.
If you want something different than what he wants then you need to consider moving on.
Good luck.
2006-10-24 11:18:24 · answer #1 · answered by Amy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he meant it. The unfortunate part of relationships is that we say what we truly mean when our guard is down. It was nice that you found each other again. It probably would be ok to date. I would suggest backing off and giving your partner some time to think about what he truly wants. If he just wants to play, you need to decide whether or not you want to be his play toy. If you don't, you need to decide to what extent you will accept this person in your life. The boundries are set by you. Much like reward and punishment you need to be in control of the situatioin. It may sound harsh but if you are not in control then who is?
I suggest the following popular books: John Gray's Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus and Seduction by Robert Greene. Although different approaches to the art of relationships they both have merit. One teaches communication skills while the other teaches techniques.
Good luck.
2006-10-24 11:21:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe the accusations and nagging are causing him to blurt out this hurtful and meaningless words. It's more important that you stop accusing him, if you accuse too much, he won't feel that you trust him and eventually he'll leave because he's not satisfied with the relationship.
I'm pretty sure he said that out of anger but it's best to sit down with him. Communication is essential in a relationship and the two of you have to talk it out and compromise.
2006-10-24 11:23:11 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was pretty clear on what his feelings for you were... You're a relationship of convenience, but one day he'll want to go out and fool around again, and you will be discarded. Then he'll be able to say - well, I was honest, and I told you that a long time ago.
Don't be foolish... a person who respects you as a partner and values your relationship would never say such a thing. He clearly has his sights set elsewhere.
2006-10-24 12:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-22 10:40:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"i dont care i dont wanna stay with one peson the rest of my life"
He's not talking about you. He's talking about anyone including you.
2006-10-24 11:25:57 · answer #6 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel so bad to be the one to tell you this.
YEP he means he does not want to marry you.
Best of luck as you move on and find a deserving man!
2006-10-24 11:18:29 · answer #7 · answered by ferretcoach 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you need to find out if he is serious about you or not....You are going to want to get married soon and if he isn't going to marry you then you need to start looking elsewhere...
2006-10-24 11:26:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE FACT THAT HE DOESN'T WANT TO BE MARRIED ISN'T AS MUCH AS A CLUE AS THE WAY HE TREATS YOU. GET OUT BEFORE HE TAKES AWAY ALL OF YOUR SELFWORTH, HE IS AT STEP 2 ALREADY, LEAVE.
2006-10-24 12:17:45 · answer #9 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he said it he means it!
That is just the way men are. They don't play those silly mind games women do!
2006-10-24 11:22:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋