ok, so i fessed up. i told my friend that i liked the guy she'd been crushing on since 5th grade. i didn't wan to, i figured that she liked him first, and i didn't want to jeprodize are friendship (total cheese) the problem is, my other friend thought that he liked me. and told me... in front of her. she got really quiet and started walking. i followed her told her that i knew that she liked him and that i didn't think he liked me. she got really quiet, but she looked really mad. then she said in a kind of mean voice "i don't think he does either" then "do you like him?" i asked her if it would be terrible if i did. she said no, do you? i didn't want to lie, so i said yes. now she won't talk to me, or, she will, but really couldly, and keeps turning her back to me. i feel bad becasue i know she liked him for a really long time, but, i can't help likeing who i like. how do i save this friendship?
roses have thorns as well as blooms.
2006-10-24 11:11:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
u know the rules. make a choice,
knowing that both are not possible.
(or listen to the voice of satan below me)
2006-10-24 11:12:39 · answer #1 · answered by oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres no reason for you to try and save you friendship a real friend should understand. I mean you didnt get mad when you found out she likeded him. A real friend would say I might of crushed on him but he likes you so if you like him go for it why to get mad? Thats just like makeing someone like you which you can't.
2006-10-24 11:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a few days to cool off. Maybe your other friend could intervene for you. If she doesn't come around don't worry about it too much. It's her problem. She's got some growing up to do.
2006-10-24 11:15:20 · answer #3 · answered by lucy02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sounds like she's not totally committed to being your friend if she can let something like this come between you too. Give her time to chew on it for a while if she doesn't warm up to you then go all out. Nuts on her.
2006-10-24 11:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm ***** your friend go for that boy and have SEX with him!!! Who cares about her. especially for giving the silent treatment. who does that thats so lame
2006-10-24 11:14:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHATEVER, SHELL GET OVER IT!
2006-10-24 11:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by Miss.Patton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wutever...shell get over it...
2006-10-24 11:13:12 · answer #7 · answered by babycakez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋