together with me he says he doesnt know but he still calls and texts. He even has alot of his stuff at the house. What does this mean or what should I do??
2006-10-24 11:02:23 · 14 answers · asked by krupslady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It just sounds like he is not sure whether he is ready to end the relationship or continue with it. Sometimes after we have been with a person for while we need time to think through the context of our bond with that person. He may be afraid that he wants a more permanent relationship with you but still fears committment. Give it another month or so and if he still can't decide what to do break it off and find a person who can truly appreciate you.
2006-10-24 11:08:02 · answer #1 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it back girl. Do not let him waste your time and heart. When you ask him to come get his things, see what he has to say about that. When a guy asks you for space it could only mean that he's out being a player....Good luck
2006-10-24 11:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do nothing. Unless you get really fed up with him, then you should break it off yourself. Don't wait around for him. Guys are dumb. Just basically tell him that if he wants space, then you want to break it off at least for now. If you both decide later to try things again, fine. But he should come get his stuff and he should stop calling.
2006-10-24 11:04:48 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that he is out looking for a girlfriend and you are his back up/last resort. you should look at the status of your relationship and work out if this is what you want. if it is then you can stay with the status quo or you can change it by saying that you want to be exclusive again or he has to get his stuff so that you can get closure and move on. good luck.
2006-10-24 11:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all he wants to be free and be out there with his friend or even talking to another girl because when a guy needs space is that his feelings changed towards you and wants to feel how would he feel with out you being around would he survive or he would he need you in his life.
2006-10-24 11:15:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just gonna waste your time if he cant make up his mind tell him fine dont call me txt me give him his stuff back and say i love you but i cant wait on you forever ive given you your time and space and its not working out for u because u still cant makeup your mind! tell him now let me move on with my life and find someone who is sure they want to be with me and thats it!
2006-10-24 11:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like my ex,he said the same thing and he wanted more space because he said we were spending to much time together,so i spyed on him and found out he was seeing other women behind my back.
2006-10-24 11:07:29 · answer #7 · answered by dee30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to take a hike and find a man that wants you and doesn't have to think about it! You deserve that much..oh and burn his junk. Put it in a big box and dump it in front of his house.
2006-10-24 11:04:06 · answer #8 · answered by legallybrunette510 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he is currently casually dating and doesn't want to be in a committed relationship.
i would suggest you start doing the same.. then maybe sometime down the road you two will hook up again.
2006-10-24 11:04:04 · answer #9 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make up his mind for him and tell him to come and get his stuff.
2006-10-24 11:21:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋