my frend has been through alot, having her dad try to kill her, her sis being bi and her mom not caring about her! she is under a lot of stress and says she might commit suicide, ive talked to her and told a conceler but she's still thinkin about , what should i do. if she dies its gonna be my fault cauz i new she wanted to! HELP QUICKLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-24 10:56:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
http://mentalhealth.samhsa.gov/suicideprevention/concerned.asp
Tell her to call this number. She is very stressed,the professionals there will help her. We all need help sometimes.
If this is an emergency, please contact your local crisis center or call 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255).
2006-10-24 11:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by Joan C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing you can do is advise her to talk to a counsillor. You cant watch her 24/7, so you just have to be there for her and make her realise that life does get better. Maybe get her a book on the life of someone who'se life started off **** but with a bit of hard work and perserverence got better.
If she does do anything you have to realise that it wasn't your fault, some people seriously have a chemical imbalance that makes them do these things.
2006-10-24 11:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by Knowitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the office of child protective services and talk to a counselor yourself and tell her what you have written here. They will contact your friend and get her some help. In the meantime try to talk to her yourself and maybe invite her to stay with you until she can get the help she needs. It would not be your fault if you have tried to help her and done all you could do. Good luck. I hope this helps.
2006-10-24 11:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by Libragal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is really a sad situation but you've done what you should. you've told a counselor (at school I presume) and you're there to support her. it must be really scary for you to go threw this. maybe you should try to talk to your parents and see if they can guide you any further because suicide is no joke. Rather she's doing it for attention or not does not matter. Because sometimes I don't think young people realize how much they have in front of them and how final death is. Hang in there!
2006-10-24 11:04:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell a teacher or a counselor to help you on this one. You guys are young. There is so much in life then what your friend is going through. Give your friend positive feedback on how life is improtant without her. Good luck.
2006-10-24 11:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have got to get her into a docter screw what that other guy said aboutt the attenion u need to give her lots of attiention u need to show her that she means something to you and that if she left this world that she would only cuase more pain and suffering and if her dad really attemped to kill her than u need to try and get her away from that family i hope you really think about it
2006-10-24 11:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by ice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really think she's gonna do it don't ever leave he site, she neds to be checked out mentally maybe all this has really scarred her, who does she live with? You need to tell them. also talk to her tell her it not her fault that all this sis happening and that you're there for her, and then really be there for her. Good luck!
2006-10-24 11:00:38 · answer #7 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please tell her not to let the evil one get her soul.If she kills herself then she won't know of the wonderful things Jesus has for her. Please tell her to talk to a school councelor or pastor.She can email me if she needs to talk to someone. If she feels noone cares then tell her what about you,you're a good freind. You two get into a project that can change the way she feels about herself.My email is godmoneybusiness@yahoo.com
2006-10-24 11:21:09 · answer #8 · answered by sharon j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o my god this is a really bad situation u know i am telling u , u better tell this 2 ur parents or the FBI 2 help her cause this is a bad thing . GET HELP 4 UR FRIENDS SAKE.
2006-10-24 11:02:13 · answer #9 · answered by sexy93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and her both need to pray about the situation....God has a plan for both of your lives. He put you and her in this situation for a reason. Use this to get closer to God. He can help you and her with anything. I know he can.
2006-10-24 10:58:32 · answer #10 · answered by *~The Lovely Me~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, since you talked to her and let her know youre there for her, and then u told a councelor, there's not much left for you to do. youve let other people know what she plans on, so there's nothing to feel guilty about. but pray for her. just in case. putting it in God's hands means that he will deal with it the way its meant to be delt with. just keep praying and just be there for her. =]
2006-10-24 11:13:10 · answer #11 · answered by Bohemo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋