2006-10-24 10:48:05 · 28 answers · asked by helpppppppp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ahhh…love. It is a commitment. It means that you forsake ALL others. You don't put anyone above your spouse. What he said was cruel and hurtful. I believe there is a saying that a man will leave his mother and his father and stick to his wife. Honey, he should never say he is going to leave you if someone tells him to, especially not his sister. Who is she anyway? The queen of England? He needs to realize how special, how wonderful you are. You are the one that is there for him when he is sick. You are or will be the one to carry and give birth to his children. You are the one who is his soft place to fall. Is he the same for you? How can yo feel safe if he would leave you at the request or command of his sister? Where is his loyalty to you? These are some questions you might want to ask him. You will never be able to believe that he is there for you 100% when he allows his sister to have power in your relationship. That power belongs to you and your husband alone. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself and tell her to back off if need be. He is your man; you are the one sleeping with him, not his sister. Tell her to step off and tell him it is time to stop hiding behind his sister and be the man you know he can be. I wish you the best in your marriage.
2006-10-24 11:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by ME 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No he does not love you. Why would he want to leave you because his sister asked him to? Does his sister like you? I don't think she does and she sure has a big impact on his love life. Let him know that you would never leave him because someone asked you to and see what he says. Good luck and keep your head up. I'm sure you are a better person than the both of them.
2006-10-24 10:59:20 · answer #2 · answered by Gucci S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm that does not sound like a normal brother sister relationship, actually it does not sound normal to take someones word for it blindly especially when it comes to your emotions towards others.
I believe your husband is submissive and does not have a very strong personality. If he did he would stand up for his feelings and his desires and not get influenced by others.
In this scenario you probably does love you but is directed by his strong bond with his sister and his weak personality.
2006-10-24 11:24:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would question his love if he is willing to allow an outside party to influence his commitment to you. Husbands and wives should always put their spouses first. You should be able to rely on his love and support without worrying about whether he will leave you at his family's prodding. If you haven't already, I would suggest you both see a marriage counselor.
Good Luck!
2006-10-24 10:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by schweetums 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer comprehend what state you reside in yet there are different thoughts than staying with him or returning abode.. If I knew the place you lived i could desire to greater suitable enable you yet there are places the place mothers and teenagers can flow jointly to rebuild their lives jointly. First step may be supply up residing as husband and spouse.. supply up all intercourse and shop finding for a factor time interest. there are a number of diverse classes for unmarried mothers with a toddler. some are for bodily or emotionally abused women with toddlers and a few are for unmarried mothers and could enable you get a place to stay, flow returned to college, get a automobile, get medical wellbeing insurance, or will help with the value of faculties or daycare. i'm guessing your son may be decrease than a million or 2 years previous. so which you may desire help with a place, daycare and a job or flow returned to college to income a commerce. you're a woman and you at the instant are responsible to your toddler. forget approximately this guy.. i comprehend much less complicated pronounced than achieved yet he's in love with your sister.. you are able to't get greater hurtful and disrespectful than that. Be certain if your sister needed him he might already be long previous so count selection that as a blessing.. you're nevertheless youthful so which you have quite some possibilities left. you do no longer could have a guy or be married to be ok..do no longer stand for being a fall returned lady. while you're no longer selection one than forget approximately it.. you're worth greater desirable than that. besides what do you think of will ensue sooner or later? he will cheat on you that's what! he's not in love with you, in actuality i might could say he would not love you by way of fact what he's putting you thru is very merciless.. do no longer supply up.. you'll be reliable to get you and your son out of this occasion. you're a sturdy mom and a sturdy individual..look in the telephone e book or the welfare workplace and teenagers in youthful people or social centers additionally comprehend approximately those kinds of classes to assist unmarried mothers rebuild..you does no longer want to maintain this guy it is going to basically injury you and your son.. have faith me no toddler needs to enhance up in a courting the place his mom and dad combat or cheat on one yet another.. sturdy good fortune
2016-10-16 08:50:10 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i don't think he loves you because he is not going to leave you because the sister says unless the sister has a friend that wants him and hes wiling to leave you because that's just a excuse to leave you and he doesn't know how to tell you so he blames the sister.
2006-10-24 11:00:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a bizarre scenario. I'm pretty sure nobody can answer for your husband since we don't have any real way of knowing how he feels.
I guess in the meantime you might want to take some brownies to his sister while he grows his own backbone.
2006-10-24 10:51:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Very strange. What powers does his sister have over you, that is the question I would be asking. I think it is time to see an attorney and get away from that family.
2006-10-24 10:50:45 · answer #8 · answered by loser 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to be careful what he says, if his sister has that much influence over him, he can go live with his sister as you don't need his sister's help to boot him out.
2006-10-24 11:02:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Incest must run in his side of the family. No he does not love you, to be able to tell you that someone can tell him to leave you, and he would? No he doesn't love you. Figure out what your next move is, because if I were you?
I wouldn't need any of my siblings to tell me to leave him.
2006-10-24 11:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋