my-exhusband divorced last april, he is now getting married in june?

Question

I still love my ex- husband, even though he left me for some one else. He is getting married in june. I want him back I do not know why. This will be his third marriage with 3 kids. I am just wondering if this marriage will work out. Or maybe someday he might want me back. Otherwise I need some advice on getting through these hard times. I get depressed I have a hard time taking care of my two year old some times.

Answer 1

Matters of the heart sometimes make no sense do they? Sometimes the world around us makes perfect sense. For instance, he left you for another women. He doesn't love you and has moved on. The obvious thing to do is just move on yourself.

But you didn't leave did you, nope you were left. Your feelings for him were the same. The question is how do you force yourself to fall out of love.

Don't try to rationalize your feelings for him. Just accept what's happened and try to make the best out of each day. Some days are harder than the next. I know that all you can do is dwell on it and think about him with another woman and how can this happen. I'm sure that some days you feel like you just can't go on.

You may love this man for many years to come and that's ok because it's what is in your heart. You may have to hate him before he begins to move out of your heart.

Unfortunetly there is nothing you can do to change things. Besides, he decided to leave you and that was his choice. Life can really suck sometimes.

My wife left me for another man. The first few years really sucked and were very, very difficult to endure. But, over time I got over her and moved on. We have a daughter together and she was 3 at the time. Eight years have passed since she left.

Now I look at how miserable her husband is and am thankful that it's not me anymore. He is stuck with her now.

Time really does heal the wounds. They may not go away completely, but enough to get through each day.

You need to find the strength and courage for your child. Sometimes you just have to fake it and pretend it's ok and then find a quite place and just let the tears flow.

I used to put a rubber band on my wrist and snap it each time I thought of my ex. Eventually it started to work and I found myself thinking of her less and less.

I'm sorry for what your going through and what you will endure in the future.

I hope you find the strength and courage to make in to the end of each day...Stay strong.

Answer 2

If he rushed into this other marriage chances are that it wont work out he will probable find some one else and break her heart, all break ups are hard especially when there is kids involved but just think of your child as a way to remember the happy times with your ex-husband, time will heal your hurt it may take a while but eventually you will be ready to move on.

Answer 3

Okay I have recently dealt with this between my parents. I am 23 years old and my parents got divorced 5 years ago. My dad moved in his girlfriend 2 weeks later. Now i now this sounds suspicious but my dad told me he was going to divorce her as soon as i graduated. But about 3 years ago my dad and his girlfriend got married. WEIRD!!! I think that you should try to concentrate an your two year old because he/she is more important than anything.Trust Me. She needs the attetention more than you need your ex. Try to take her places that she will have fun and will also take your mind off things. I let my mom watch my kids (5 and 3) so she wouldn't think about it as much. It worked for her. Bottom line is don't be depressed over something you cannot change. Everything will work itself out. Especially if you play it off that it does not bother you and that you can do so much better than he is. I mean he's propably dating a TRAMP right?

Answer 4

Congratulations! and that i recommend June. could is already jam packed on your loved ones and is in all risk an costly month paying for such quite some grants for all of those activities. April is barely in simple terms warming up, and it does rain in lots of circumstances. In June, in my section a minimum of, it is effective out, yet no longer sweltering like July or August and the plant existence are all in finished bloom.

Answer 5

Oh so sorry, I know its one of the hardest things for us humans. going thru divorce. there is always one party hurting more than the other. Focus on your little one. he really really needs you, he does not understands why daddy is not there, dont cry infront of your child....dont tell your child how bad daddy is. Go out! MEET PEOPLE...dont go into a relationship just becuase he is getting remarried..but meet people. and just live life, cheer up u have only one kid that needs you..luckly he did not leave you with 4kidsl.
go back to school... learn something new, change clothing style...do something u enjoy and slowly u will forget about him.
best of luck.

Answer 6

Sounds like Flavor Flav

Answer 7

He's on a roll. If the other marriages didn't work out, what makes you think this one will? Feel sorry for the poor girl who's gonna marry him and be glad he's out of your life.

Answer 8

Move on and stop obsessing over him. Will he, won't he??? Let it go. Who cares if he has been married 10 times. It is no longer your business and the only reason you are still in love with him is because you have not moved on.

Answer 9

You are suffering from heart ache. The only remedy for this is time. I know it sucks, but that is the only comforter in this situation. You deserve better than a cheater anyways. Good luck.

Answer 10

What??? are you FN joking? this man left you for another woman, and you want him back... it is women like you that give all others a bad name... look he left you because you did or didnt do something , let him go get the F over it... stop feeling sorry for you dumb a## ... there are other men that will treat you like a goddess go find them...