for 20 yrs now i been through relationships and there aint nobody that is compatible so i just think they are all a turn off...
2006-10-24 10:35:26 · 7 answers · asked by dee30 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's understandable that you've lost hope in relationships with men because of failed attempts.
I'd just say that you need time for yourself. Perhaps you aren't compatible with someone because you're not ready for love. You have to learn to love and respect yourself before you can do so for others.
There is sure to be someone on your level out there but you don't have to go searching.
All you need to do is enjoy your life and all its wanders, then the good man will find you.
2006-10-24 11:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 24 and get turned on by other guys, but don't act upon that. I love my husband very much. I respect him and will never cheat on him. The only problem I see is that I am not into making love with him that much any more. We have two kids now and it just turns me off. It may be because we both gained alot of weight, but maybe it'l change. Try setting the mood, candle light dinner and desert. Maybe that'll work. Don't forget the wine/champagne.
2006-10-24 19:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by blu2u1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wasn't normal in my case --- at 30 I was just getting warmed up. But everyone is different. Focus on something other than relationships for a while and pursue it with all your attention. Women are much more attractive to men when they are excited or focused on something in their lives.
2006-10-24 17:38:41 · answer #3 · answered by secondwish02 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, for me sex is only getting better and better with age. I think maybe what your problem is, is that your not taking control of the situation. If they dont do it like you like it then show them what they should be doing. You need to take more control.
2006-10-24 17:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it has not hit you yet......But girl is it ever coming.....I am 37 and have been thinking like a 18 year old boy for about two years now......just wait!
2006-10-24 17:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by Littlebit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its normal. Maybe you are choosing the wrong men or maybe you dont like men? maybe you are having some libido issues. See a doctor.
2006-10-24 17:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by Binky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe its cos youre an ugly shrek.
2006-10-24 18:19:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋