i have a issue and i need real answers!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

no hear is the deal !my sister left me with her kid, and she told me that she would be back that was 3 months ago. I lost my job and had 2 take time of from school so that i could spend time with him and show him all the love that I can give him but times are getting very hard !!!!!cant find a job 2 help support me and him with my bills rent ect....... and my other sister said you are a dummy 4 taking him she said she know she was not coming back and i dont wont to take custody from her but she wont help infact she fled down south and said she was not coming back he is so sweet he's cute and means the world 2 me my issue is with her because she wonts to party so i dont have any kids I am 27 and he is 2. still a baby

Answer 1

Please try to get in touch with the child mother before making any permanent decision. Ask her for something in writing confirming she is not coming back and she is leaving the child in your care. This makes you a single mother and you may apply for financial assistance. Also, the child father should be consulted. Good luck!

Answer 2

Aww. You are very sweet for loving and taking care of him the way a mother should. If I were you, I would try to find a job and get some income, but they need to be aware you have a small child. If you tell them you have a child, they are more likely to be understanding. And forget your sister. She doesn't seem to be that great of a person to abandon her son and leave the burden to you. I hope everything turns out well. You might also want to look at food stamps just to make sure the two of you get fed. And by the way, take custody from her. She is obviously NOT a fit mother.

Answer 3

That is so sad. Don't worry - you can find a job if you really put your mind to it. Even try those online website jobs...that way you could stay home with him! Or find a skin care line you could sell - those work too. :)

As for your sister - forget her. If you love this kid and are willing to take care of him then get custody. It would be a sad thing to let your sister keep him after she deserted him and YOU like that!

Answer 4

Your sister is a fool like mine. The child needs you even if it's hard, try to keep it together. Do you have parents that could help? Does the child have other grandparents? Don't throw (he,or she) away too. The child will have emotional problems. Good Luck. )O(

Answer 5

The economic destruction of the industrial base of the United States by the removal of protectionist tariffs on imports, and the effects of NAFTA and GATT on the American industrial base are far more detrimental to "the poor" than taxes on the rich in the U.S. Your wrong about increasing taxes on the wealthy for the benefit of the poor being "proven" to slow the economy and creating an unemployment state, that is simply a lie to justify the lopsided "Wealth fare" state our corporate run Federal government has created. The blogbaba persists at the pursuit of the the truth. I am a liberal, and believe we never should have even gone into Iraq, but I do not want to "leave" Iraq, I have never been there, so I cannot "leave" the place. Odds are pretty good the majority of our troops who are getting shot at and blown up ain't too happy with being there and most would like to "leave" thought. The people doing the shooting and blowing up most likely wouldn't mind them leaving either. I do not ignore the horrific disaster the Bush administration has made of the place, and as ruthless as it may seem, I do not care about "Middle East stability", Iraqi or otherwise. In the forty six years I have been alive, ten of which were spent serving in the U.S. Military, the Middle East has never been "stable", and it never will be so long as one Arab and one Jew remain alive to fight over it. The fact that they are slipping in most of the worlds oil supply doesn't warrent "stability", never has, never will. I am sure it sucks to be in Darfur, and if I was there, I would have an opinion, but I live in the U.S. and I rank New Orleans a lot higher on my to do list than Dafur. I do not condone injustice and death, and have little power to fix either place. Bush and his wealthy elitist power base do however have that ability, and they have failed both places, not you or I. No one wants zero industrial base, but everyone "must" have clean water and air to survive. A balance would be nice instead of an argument while rich wealthy elitists destroy the river I fish in and argue for years in court before paying a small fine for polluting the water source of a metropolitian area and causing thousands of deaths of innocent people through cancer and other pollution related disease. This can only be achieved by stricter EPA guidlines and Much Stricter Enforcement of envrionmental law coupled with real punishment of the wealthy elitist criminals who own the offending industry. You are blaming the victims of corporate greed for the crimes others assult them with. It is your elitist Wealthfare state, created, run and owned by wealthy corporate elitist's who have the ability to create and impliment strategy who have the ability to demand, not the poor. Your reference to a kid's christmas list is also dictated by corporate media, not economic reality, corporate greed cannot ever be satisfied.

Answer 6

Contact legal aid. Try to get custody. Then see if the court will make her pay child support. Legal aid can also assist you in getting social services to help make ends meet so you can care for him.

Answer 7

try to get full custody of the kid... have your parents or other sister help you take care of him.. his welfare is extremely important as he is only 2 years old, and cannot fend for himself! he is lucky to have you truly love and care for him....think of it this way.. what if she comes back all of a sudden and wants him back? with custody as the birth mother, u HAVE to give him to her, even if it is unsafe!

next, figure out how to find a Steady job... if u have to take him to day care, or babysitting, etc, or have your other sister help (the one who called u stupid... ugh what a brat!) u have to. YOU being stable is just as important to him as it is to you. good luck~

Answer 8

tell ur church and they might do an offering to support u and the baby and kindof get u going

Answer 9

i'm sorry... i am guessing that you don't have parents.... maybe there is another family member who is willing to help you with this situation. you need to work and you need to go to school..... there is help. even if you need to take this matter up with the state...

Answer 10

Leave your sister alone ...that child is hers...you are asking for trouble...she can put you in jail if you try to take her child away.