If your spouce spoke to their ex on the phone that they haven't seen or spoken to in 8 years? But there is a catch to it. The ex was in prison for 3 years for killing a baby while driving drunk. Your spouce knows about it, but still speaks to the ex behind your back after you have asked them not to. You find out and they lie to you and say they didn't. But you find text messages on their phone. Saying things like "I think I still love you" or "I love you". You get in a big fight you tell your spouce to leave to go be with the ex. They leave go to the town the ex is in. You call a friend they have there in the town the ex is in. Ask your spouce to come home. They say they will even tells your 6 year old they will but they stay until they see the ex. They come home lie to you and say they didn't see the ex and lies to you for a month after. Finally tells the truth about everything. They didn't have sex while aways for the day but you think they did. Would you ever beleave or forgive them
2006-10-24 10:22:49 · 11 answers · asked by nreavis2004 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ummm....holy crap. that is WAAAAAAAAAAY too much drama. i cant even BELIEVE you are asking questions about all this...this person is telling lie after lie after lie. that is rediculous. is this your spouse? time to let go of all that mess. let it all go. why would you want to be in the middle of all that? and ex is an ex for a reason....it was in the past, and there is NO NEED to still be speaking to that person, yet alone meeting up in person.
2006-10-24 10:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, i wouldnt believe that story and you're a fool if you do. There was something besides just talking and catching up going on to keep the spouse away. And besides the spouse had NO business going to see the ex in the first place. But, speaking as a woman who just went through suspecting my hubby had an affair, its easier said than done to just leave. You can forgive, but you will never forget. I read somewhere once it can take 1-3 years to get over an affair. But the memory will still linger on. Forgive him and stay if you think its worth saving and he is willing to put forth some effort. Good luck.
2006-10-24 17:31:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well heres the thing he is lying to you. he has feelings for her as well. so why are you with him. he still loves her. so where does that leave you. sounds like he chose her. he chose to lie to you and left to go see her. His behavior is very scandalous. No i wouldn't believe him. Hes not very trustworthy. You should really talk to him. ask if he wants out or not. if he doesn't change his behavior tell him its over,
2006-10-24 17:31:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! If he truly loved you he wouldnt have left you and exspecially your child and they wouldnt have lied to you and your child. If not for your sake but your childs leave him! Tell him to stay gone. He obviously still thinks about his ex, so you need to get rid of him!
~Good Luck~
2006-10-24 17:28:31 · answer #4 · answered by armesia_combs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, a spouse that is involved with a convict!?!? Never mind being a convict, cheating is no excuse.
2006-10-24 17:32:56 · answer #5 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, learn to spell and use proper punctuation, then the SPOUSE might stay faithful to you and only you...
2006-10-24 20:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by patbendrv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lying devious spouse has no business being in my life. I don't tolerate that. And would prove it.
2006-10-24 17:31:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the spouse.
2006-10-24 17:30:30 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way, they've lied to you all along, what makes you think they are telling the truth now???? Be realistic!
2006-10-24 17:46:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would f*ck him. Hard. Then I would do his ex. That kinda stuff turns me on!!!
2006-10-24 17:55:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋