Whenever my friends and I are out, they continuously refer to women as the "C" word, you know what I mean by the "C" word, the word that every woman hates. I tell them to cool it but they think it's a joke. I find it rude and vulgar, the other night a girl heard it and was angry. Please Slap the He11 out of them. I stopped hanging around them, and told them one day their man is going to hear that crap and then it's on. Why are friends like that?
2006-10-24 10:20:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No jokedrugs, just respectful of women. Something I'm sure you have no clue about tha's why you have no life, no girl, just your hand.
2006-10-24 10:28:08 · update #1
Because they don't know how to behave in a public place- when a man is confronted in an intimate surrounding, the tables turn because there is no one else to "follow the leader." Are any of the guys married? Have children? Put the shoe on the other foot and see how'd they react if they heard a guy say that to their kid- they'd go ballistic. General rule of thumb for me: If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.
2006-10-24 15:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do that because they think it's smart or cool. The reason they're blowing you off is because in their book, they think that you're infringing on their right to act "cool".
If they start that vulgarity again, you can tell them, straight up, that women don't find it cool and won't want to date them. Or, you can try a gentler approach by saying something like, "You know, chicks dig dudes with good manners." This, rather than counteracting them, plays into their desire to be "cool".
2006-10-24 17:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion the "C" word is the most disrespectful thing you could say to or about a woman.
They are childish! And, probably womanless or soon will be.
You shouldn't worry about them though! Just focus on you and how you treat people. You seem like a good guy, don't let them drag you down!
2006-10-24 17:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by Kailey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think thats absoultely rude of them. That is so disrespectful in so many ways. U made the right decision and 1 day i bet it will pay off when u meet the girl of ur dreams.
2006-10-24 17:31:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friends are Insecure and Immature...sometimes men and some women as well will call others names to fulfill that void they have in their lives...Low Self Esteem comes in all sizes and shapes...that's the problem with your buddies.
2006-10-24 17:24:37 · answer #5 · answered by celine8388 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Their probably just doing it because they know it gets your goat,instead of freaking just ignore them and when they see it doesn't bother you they will try something or someone new! Think about it you've probably been on the other side to.
2006-10-24 17:27:41 · answer #6 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends are immature and they are also rude. How would they like to have their girlfriends refered to in that manner by a total stranger
2006-10-24 17:32:20 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you've grown out of your friends. No matter what age you are, if you're growing in a different direction, then it may be time for new friends.
2006-10-24 17:24:26 · answer #8 · answered by megmom 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you've made the right decision on leaving that group. and also, your friends are like that because they are trying to be cool and draw attention to themselves. you don't need them
2006-10-24 17:23:22 · answer #9 · answered by Marsha N 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They think it makes them look and sound cool
2006-10-24 17:22:36 · answer #10 · answered by conundrum_dragon 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋