I'm 16 and recently I've been seeing a 20 year old guy. I like him and he likes me too. When we first met and I told him my age he seemed to kind of get a buzz which I thought was weird. Since we have been phoning each other and meeting up and everytime he touches me all over. I don't hate it but sometimes I get uncomfortable and back away. The other day I went to his flat for the first time and I was expecting us just to sit and chat for ages or watch a movie or something. Instead he just said to me 'Do you wanna suck my dick?' I said no. Then he laid me on the sofa and started kissing and fingering me. It seems like all he wants to do is touch or attempt to have sex with me. He also seems thrilled that I'm a virgin. I hardly know anything about the guy, not even his surname. My mum harps on at me about him saying I shouldn't see him because he's too old. The next time I see him I bet he'll want to have sex. Something tells me he has shagged younger girls in the past. Help?!!!
2006-10-24 09:58:48 · 6 answers · asked by bubbly_child 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He will get you pregnant. Ready for a baby?
2006-10-24 10:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know much about the guy and aren't really in love with him, DO NOT have sex with him. You have no idea if he is bragging to his friends about how many girls he has taken virginity from. It sounds to me like he is playing a game with you. And no matter what no means no. You want your first time to be special, with someone you care about, something you can remember for the rest of your life and not regret. This guy is probably with more then just you. If you aren't giving it to him he is getting it somewhere else. After you sleep with him once or maybe even a few times the thrill will be gone for him and you will be yesterdays news. Please be careful and follow your instincts.
2006-10-24 10:07:17 · answer #2 · answered by avonlady_IL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, if he makes you uncomfortable at ANY time, then you shouldn't be with him. You should always go with your gut instinct, and it's telling you that this man has some problems. If you thoughts on him are right, then he isn't really into you, and he doesn't really see YOU... all he cares is that there is a 16 year old girl in front of him. Get away while you can and find yourself a guy who sees you.
2006-10-24 10:04:17 · answer #3 · answered by visionssofaraway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't see him again: he is just a 'virgin surgeon'. You should only go at a pace that you feel comfortable with.
2006-10-24 10:02:30 · answer #4 · answered by Bob M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he thinks he is telly the virgin surgeon from kids?
2006-10-24 10:18:34 · answer #5 · answered by Voicekiller 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes doesnt seem to have much respect for you! also he could go to jail really quick if he doesnt clean up his act.
2006-10-24 10:05:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋