ok a guy that i really really like is kinda weird. he has a really bad temper and cant keep it under control. i dont know what to do. one minute i'm in love with him and the next i just wish i could get away from him. . . all my friends say that if i am having doughts about him then it wont work out anyways. but i dont know if i can live with the thought of not knowing what would've happened. i just need some advice. im so confused, i really really need ur help.
2006-10-24 09:56:10 · 11 answers · asked by babydoll10 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You don't need to be around anyone that can't control their temper. It just doesn't look promising.
Millions of women who stuck with men that lost control are either in shelters or not here anymore to warn us of the dangers of living with men who can't control their tempers.
It will only get worse with age.
Get OUT!!!!
2006-10-24 09:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by stocks4allseasons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a really bad temper and can't keep control, then that doesn't sound like a good guy to be with. You may like him, and he may be hott, but what would you do if he ever lost his temper with you? What if he hit you? Would you still think he was great? Guys like that are real trouble. They usually convince you that they truely care about you and once they have you under their spell they turn on you. They hurt you really bad and tell you that you made them do it and that they love you. I know you may really like him but is that really what you want to end up in. I'm not saying it will happen for sure, but most guys like that end up turning that way in relationships. Does he have any ex-girlfriends that you know? Talk to them, ask them what he was like. It may feel like spying but its better to know that what he's truely like then just take a leap of faith.
2006-10-24 17:05:07 · answer #2 · answered by Chelle's Belle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would listen to your friends. Getting involved with a guy who has a bad temper and doesn't know how to control it, is not good. Think about it this way...do you want to be involved with a guy like this with this kind of temper if he is pissed at you? Domestic Violence....not a good thing! Get over him and find yourself a nice guy!
2006-10-24 17:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by Mom to Foster Children 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it this way: he has a bad temper and cannot control it. What if he were to unleash that temper on you? I think you can live with the thought of not being physically abused becuase that is a real possibility with this guy.
Even if you have doubts, cut and run!
2006-10-24 16:59:52 · answer #4 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie... RUN!!! The what could be question does not aply in this case. If he has a problem with his temper there is no way to tell if one day that temper won't be taken out on you. I know it's hard, but forget him!!!!!
2006-10-24 19:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by lil_hem_n_va 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from him ASAP. If he can't control his temper,there's no doubt that if you stay with him,you'll eventually become his kicking post " he'll take his frustrations out on you" No woman deserves to be treated like that whether it be verbal or physical.!
2006-10-24 17:02:39 · answer #6 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has an anger management problem now it will only get worse. If he is acting like a schmuck this early on, imagine what he will act like when he is used to you being around.
2006-10-24 16:59:56 · answer #7 · answered by DeputyD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the first thing you should do is ask yourself what do you really feel. then take a week or so without seeing him, or talk to him in that way you will know if you really need to be with him or not. it always work. do it for yourself not for others.
Good Luck!!!!!!
2006-10-24 16:59:47 · answer #8 · answered by Damisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has a bad temper, he may take it out on you one day. i'd stay away before he hurts you.
2006-10-24 17:03:56 · answer #9 · answered by Texas T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN, FAST!!!!!! The longer you stay the worse it gets. IT ALWAYS DOES!!!! No matter how sweet he "can be" I guarantee in the end it's NOT worth it! It WILL get worse, I've seen it a LOT!!
2006-10-24 17:38:00 · answer #10 · answered by purpledragonflyjrh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋