I probably say it twice a day at most! How can you say it too much if you mean it?! We have been together for 7 months and friends for a few years. I know he loves me, but he is not a very open person about his emotions, and I am.
2006-10-24 09:31:20 · 12 answers · asked by Marissa C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Everyone has their saturation point irrespective of the subject matter. The fact he's raised this as an issue with you means you need to listen....sad as it may seem to you.
He may feel almost overwhelmed by the frequency of what you say to him. Think of it like this. Let's suppose he enjoys making love to you, but what if he wanted to do it twice a day every day? Do you think after a while it might become somewhat unemotional and not have the same effect for you? What if it became an issue for you but he couldn't understand your reaction because he loves you and he means it when he makes love to you? It's the same point. He could say "How can you make love too much if you mean it?"
The key is to listen and reach a compromise based on input from both of you. What seems innocuous to you may be a relevent issue for your partner and vice versa. To not do this, is to impose your own standards onto your partner at the expense of his/her wishes...and that can be construed as a selfish act even if it is well meaning. Under those circumstances it is possible for a person to not only switch off, but lose respect for their partner because they are not being heard.
2006-10-24 10:02:08 · answer #1 · answered by Pseudo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey i'm not that kind of open person neither but sometimes I have to let it out, wether I want to or not, because it might end up as a bad relationship in a wrong way. So my opinion if he says that you tell him I luv you or i miss you to much maybe hes not ready for a relationship. I would let him go and if you love him so much than wait for him to mature. *Toodles*
2006-10-24 09:41:23 · answer #2 · answered by squeeks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch how to lose a guy in 10 days its funny an might give you an idea
2006-10-24 09:36:53 · answer #3 · answered by jpotts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should say how you feel just because he isn't so open doesn't mean you should change for him
2006-10-24 09:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by snaggles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't say it so much....It does get to be a little aggravating to hear that all the time ya know....
2006-10-24 09:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't say it at all for a while and see what he does. I bet he will miss it and ask you to resume telling him what you feel
2006-10-24 09:34:27 · answer #6 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to tell you that you are TOO clingy. Give him some space.
2006-10-24 10:04:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so stop telling him..and blieve me his next problemis gonna be that u dont express urself enuff and u dont love him n e more...men dont know what tha hell they want
2006-10-24 09:40:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if the two of you could be incompatible.
2006-10-24 09:34:22 · answer #9 · answered by Socrates 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop telling him....then he'll begin to think youve gone off him and wonder whats wrong
2006-10-24 09:34:39 · answer #10 · answered by Just passing the time! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋