Why do guys always blame you for cheating when they are the ones who are creepin??
2006-10-24 09:26:20 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
'cuz they want u to feel giulty for the relationship not working out... they're are jerks.... my b/f always accused me of cheating, he never did, but i got tired of him always telling me i was cheating and i finally did... 3 times in a row... i told him about it and told him it was over... he begged me to stay with him... he still beggs me after 4 months.... he got what he wanted... learned his lesson....
2006-10-24 09:33:11 · answer #1 · answered by ILuvMe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guilt I think. Guys look at women, fantasize about them. Many times to the point they will fantasize about a particular women while masturbating. Then they feel guilty. -or- they will connect in sexual activity with a woman they have met because of their fantasy. They they really feel guilt with you.
The guilt makes them "spread the blame." They accuse you of cheating (either mental or actual) and it makes them feel less guilty. If you are really cheating and they know it, then they normally feel they are home free and the guilt stops!
-or- maybe they just want out of the relationship, don't know how, and use accusations of cheating by you to extracate themselves from the relationship.
If you are in a sexual relationship and feel that you love the person who is accusing you, take a close look at it. Are you doing anything to give them that idea? If you are not you might simply discuss it with him and perhaps clear the air. If that doesn't work, then go on to a better relationship with someone else. Once you make your mind up, NO SEX. Cut him off, completely.
2006-10-24 09:36:38 · answer #2 · answered by bobinbelen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well of course they call it guilt. Every cheater has that moment after they cheat when they wonder where you are. And who your with. Their cheating but they wonder if you are too. Because their not around they figure someone must be. It really true when you get caught and that person forgives you they want to know if your cheating to get back at them so they know how you felt. But most importantly they trusted you and look what you did.
2006-10-24 09:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by blessnevapet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have no better excuse but to point the finger. They'll blame you for this and that, say you didn't do this, and you weren't there for that. But, if they really cared about you, they would communicate better and explain how they're feeling so that their marriage can work— rather than having to cheat.
There's no excuse. They just don't appreciate the person they're with and want to have their cake and eat it too.
2006-10-24 09:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys blame you for cheating because they are too immature to realize that they aren't giving you whatever it is you need and expect from a boyfriend
2006-10-24 09:28:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i think it's because they like (or love) their partner so much that they do not want to have a go at them so the next closest person for them to take their anger is obviously the other person
2016-03-28 06:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by Beverly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't overgeneralize like this. I've been married (and divorced) twice. Both of my wives cheated on me while I remained faithful. I forgave them but asked them to stop their affairs, at which point they left for another guy.
Women....sheesh.
(or maybe I'm just an ******.....just ask either of my exes!!!)
2006-10-24 09:37:23 · answer #7 · answered by Sheik Yerbouti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they do not like the feeling of rejection. Got to have some reason to dump you to justify it to thier friends. Take the hint; get rid of him before he takes to opportunity to turn it around because it will soon come.
2006-10-24 09:30:57 · answer #8 · answered by denfasr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men can be very insecure but not want to show there true feelings so blame is the best ay to deal with it
2006-10-24 09:28:40 · answer #9 · answered by nealeyus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop hanging out with losers and get yourself a nice boyfriend.
2006-10-24 09:30:13 · answer #10 · answered by Mr Smarty Pants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋