okay so this girl i know was 16 when she started having sex with her father and it went on and on until she became 19(her age now). Is that sexual abuse or not...because the girl liked it but hated it. Now she is waaayy to attached to her father and she hates all his girlfriends and she still thinks about sex with her daddy..what can she do? She is depressed alot and confused also
2006-10-24 09:21:01 · 40 answers · asked by * 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
oh and i forgot to ask if its too late to tell or not since she is 19?
2006-10-24 09:33:50 · update #1
abuse is abuse no matter what age you are. i went threw something like this until i was 16,I'm now 26. my case is going to court now even though it was back then. tell your friend this will hunt her later in life. she needs to tell or talk to somebody she can trust. the depression comes with this. it was not her fault!!!!
keep a watch on her and help if you can. a lot of abused people
keep themselves in a vary dark and lonely place.
2006-10-24 16:38:54 · answer #1 · answered by tannatobias34 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, sorry to say, but whether she liked it or not it was abuse. This man is her father, he has no business touching her like that. Why would he do that to his own flesh and blood? Where was her mother? He broke the trust that a father and daughter should have. I would suggest she go see a counselor. It was not her fault and she may need help sorting out all her feelings.
2006-10-24 09:32:55 · answer #2 · answered by Chelle's Belle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is called Incest. Incest is sexual intercourse between those who are related by blood or marriage.
It is also rape, abuse and a whole string of things that are absolutely awful. This man does not love his daughter. He is sick.
The girl needs to report her father to the police. It is a VERY unhealthy relationship. The man betrayed her trust by having sex with her and she loves him and did not want to disappoint him. The whole thing is just sick to think about.
Please be a friend and get her into some counseling.
2006-10-24 09:27:11 · answer #3 · answered by stocks4allseasons 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's abuse.
If you contact the local rape crisis line, they can put her in touch with some agencies designed to help girls going through exactly this kind of thing.
(Please, do NOT feel weird about calling. It's not only for people who've just been raped ten minutes ago and are in crisis. Honest -- they'll be glad to hear from you and help.)
There's a lot of help out there for this kind of thing. She can get over it, but it's going to take some hard work and good help.
And the longer she waits to get that help, the worse it'll be.
2006-10-24 09:25:33 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine Blackthorne 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. That is abuse.
It started when she was 16. Her father is supposed to be protecting her, not using her.And wether or not she liked/dislike it, she was/is a child. The father is wrong on so many levels...wrong...wrong...wrong.
And your friend may feel that it is her fault maybe, because you say she liked it? When it started she was still too young to really have a mind of her own to stop it.
2006-10-24 09:27:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's abuse in every sense of the word. What he's done breaks so many laws. First it's incest, which is illegal. Second it's statutory rape, which is also illegal.
She needs to get away from him and seek therapy to deal with this tragedy.
2006-10-24 09:24:45 · answer #6 · answered by jlaidlawy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have asked some pretty weird questions, but I'm going to hope you aren't joking about this..because if you were, that would be very immature. anyway, yes, this is abuse, and yes, she can absolutly still report it and needs to. She needs psychological help also. She needs to tell.
2006-10-24 09:44:14 · answer #7 · answered by #3ontheway! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, absolutely it is abuse. He has opened a door for her mental instability that later in life will hurt both of them. She or a friend (you?) need to report it to the police. I can guarantee that she didn't want to do it, but did it so he would love her. Such a shame.
2006-10-24 09:24:07 · answer #8 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Definitely abuse
2006-10-24 09:22:30 · answer #9 · answered by lopie6 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is abuse and incest. Sexual and emotional. She needs a therapist or a clergyman. Daddy needs to go to jail!
2006-10-24 09:23:57 · answer #10 · answered by lilacslooklovely 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋