okay so this girl i know was 16 when she started having sex with her father and it went on and on until she became 19(her age now). Is that sexual abuse or not...because the girl liked it but hated it. Now she is waaayy to attached to her father and she hates all his girlfriends and she still thinks about sex with her daddy..what can she do? She is depressed alot and confused also
2006-10-24 09:19:55 · 28 answers · asked by * 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Definitely sexual abuse. The attachment she has to her father is from the dysfunctional relationship they have had and will continue to have until she gets some help. Recommend therapy for her as a way to get a better and healthier perspective on what has happened to her and how she is feeling now. No point in going on about how it is illegal and her father is a disgusting human being, That may come later. Her first concern should be getting herself well enough to do what needs to be done. encourage her to go to group therapy if she is opposed to going alone. you could come with her for support.
Check this link for local groups and phone numbers in your area.
http://www.rainn.org/programs/national-sexual-assault-hotline.html
2006-10-24 09:28:11 · answer #1 · answered by Steph 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he started having sex with her when she was 16, he is a criminal and she is probably brain-washed. It is not her fault. She really needs professional help. I knew a case like that but the girl was about 9 when it started. She was taken away from the father's home but ended up living with him as a teen.
She acted as if he was her man. She showed me pictures of them together. I said that is not how fathers and daughters pose for pictures. She rolled her eyes at me and walked away. They had a baby together when she was 18. The baby died misteriously. Bunch of whack-jobs, I would say. That is nasty.
2006-10-24 09:35:50 · answer #2 · answered by Jacks036 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE is wrong. She was only 16. Her dad might have been 40. He knows what he's doing. He knows better. Heck yeah thats sexuall abuse. She didn't know what she was doing. she seems like a loyal person and people take advantage of people like that. Tell her to tell the cops and that it's not her fault. She didn't know. She was young, and she needs to stop. Thats sick but get her help and try to be her therapist. Talk to her. She is brainwashed. Help her.
2006-10-24 09:27:43 · answer #3 · answered by The REBELution! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In one of your posts, you say that you are 19, and possibly pregnant, then you say that you are the mother of a 19 year old daughter who is wild and prenant and cuts herself - and you call yourself young and yummy? None of what you are saying is normal. I am guessing you are discussing your own incestuous past here, that you are really affected by the situation, and that you need to talk to a couselor immediately! What your father did is morally reprehensible and illegal in the United States. Please, you must get help!
2006-10-24 09:28:11 · answer #4 · answered by Euro Cop 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would help if she went and saw a shrink. Get it all out in the open. She needs to get away from her father, that's not normal to have sex with your father.
2006-10-24 09:22:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is INSANE sexual abuse. Her father abused her. She should bring charges against him (she still can) and seek counseling. He took advantage of her and abused/manipulated her in the worst way. He should be locked up, the sick bastard.
2006-10-24 09:22:27 · answer #6 · answered by bibliophile31 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its sexual abuse and Incest....what a tragedy....I'm speechless.
Give me his address....I'll straighten him out, I'll bring my 6' 7" basketball playing brother with me
I too looked over your past questions...and I am very concerned for you....There are people who can help you, its going to be a big step, but you can do it, but first you need to leave your fathers house.
2006-10-24 09:23:54 · answer #7 · answered by Diamond in the Rough 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL COUNSELING AND THERAPY IS A MUST IT NOT THE CHILD'S FAULT SHE IS MESSED UP WHEN SOMETHING AS TRAUMATIZING AS THAT HAPPENS TO YOU WHEN YOU ARE A YOUNG CHILD YOU HAVE ALL KINDS OF DIFFERENT FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS, WHAT THE GIRLS FATHER DID TO HER WAS WRONG TO PUT IT MILDLY THE GIRL WAS A VICTIM AND SHOULD SEEK HELP SO SHE CAN GET ON WITH THE REST OF HER LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-24 09:29:22 · answer #8 · answered by NICKIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get this girl some phycological help. not putting her down, but she needs it as for the father have him put in prison a/s/a/p he is a filthy, dirty man who has no right to walk around doing this to people and by the way when he gets to prison he will get what he has dished out and much more!!!!
2006-10-24 09:23:42 · answer #9 · answered by A Proud Marine's Daughter 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this is serious sexual abuse and highly illegal. She needs to contact the police and also see a psychologist.
2006-10-24 09:23:20 · answer #10 · answered by Matt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋