I feel like an idiot for asking this... But I think Im bi, Im not totally sure though!
When I look at a woman... I like what I see... I have always wanted to mess around with a girl. But I have a boyfriend and he is totally against that... What do you all think?
2006-10-24 09:18:23 · 11 answers · asked by Gayle B 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
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2006-10-24 09:20:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I would ask age of you and BF? sometimes guy feel they can tell a female what she can and cant do in her life even tho they are not married or even engaged, If you are having feelings about women then your having urges, urges just mean you are curious at this point, after a few rounds with a cutie all to yourself, you may decide you like it better than with the guy, DONT let him Force the direction of your life just because hes gonna be jealous, I Bet thats what it is too, he wont be able to get in the middle of you and another female and hes just pouting like a kid,,, Its not a matter if your Bi or if your BF agreees, Its a Matter of YOU Living the Life you WANT to and can live , tell the BF to shut the hell up and your gonna do what you wanna do, if he dont like it he can hit the road,
2006-10-27 00:46:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It wont kill you to try it, not that im telling you to go ahead and do so, but in your case you should i think because you dont want to be wondering all your life what if, or confused about your sexuality and what you really like but rather be sure of what you are and who you are. It doesnt necessarilly mean that you must have sex......sometimes it only takes a kiss to find out you know......so you shoul follow your heart and listen to your concious and do what you believe is best for you and not what you b/f wants.Good luck hope i help in some way
2006-10-24 21:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by Lizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this stage, you're probably bicurious. This means you would like to "see what its like" with a member of a gender different to that who you normally go with. The term bicurious can also apply to a gay person who wants to see what its like with a member of the opposite sex.
You won't know whether you're bisexual until you act out upon your curiosity. You might try it and find you don't like it, and never think about it again. Alternatively, you might want to go back for more.
If you continued to fantasise and/or went back for more, then you would be bisexual if you continued enjoying your relationship with your boyfriend, or if you stopped liking your boyfriend and all other guys - you would be homosexual.
Sexuality can vary throughout a persons lifetime, so what you lean now might be different later on.
2006-10-24 10:21:49 · answer #4 · answered by nemesis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your feelings are very strong, then you should try being with a woman to see if you do enjoy it and if it's something you want to pursue. Most important thing is to be honest with yourself. If it turns out you are bi-sexual, then that's okay. You will need to talk to your boyfriend. If he is unwilling to accept it, then move on. Find someone who will accept you for who you are, but you must be honest with others as well.
2006-10-24 09:24:32 · answer #5 · answered by kittykatmendez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be with women as well as men, then by the technical definition you're bisexual. I'm not sure what your boyfriend has to do with the situation, except that he might not like the competition. :)
It's perfectly OK to have bisexual feelings and never act on them. It's perfectly OK to have bisexual feelings and be monogamous. The only thing about your situation that might *not* be OK is your boyfriend telling you "You're not bisexual". That's not something he has any authority to judge.
2006-10-24 09:55:53 · answer #6 · answered by Elliot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he ever fantasize about having a threesome with you and another woman? You could ask if he is interested and start from there. You could also try some porn video's with two women and a male, get him aroused. Keep up the naughty work, and he will be interested soon.
2006-10-24 09:26:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are perfectly normal...i'm going thru the same thing as you and there are plenty others on here as well that feel the same as you do. i find women to be hot and sexy...fantasize about being with them as well...although i love my man to death and think he is way hot and sexy as well...i'm going to try and bring this up with my man...i don't think he would be totally against it..not sure though...i'm just scared he'll think i'm some confused freak...can't figure out what side i want to be on...but for me...there is no side...it's all one big open field. good luck hun
2006-10-24 09:53:23 · answer #8 · answered by tigerlily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not bi, you just think you are. You probably are attracted to the the excitement of breaking a taboo associated with being a Bi or gay.
2006-10-24 09:32:34 · answer #9 · answered by Steve R 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why worry about it? Find a new boyfriend.
2006-10-24 09:20:47 · answer #10 · answered by Gaspode 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋