If you were in love with your friends wife, would you tell the wife if you were sure that she felt the same way. Her husband is crazy about her, and he has been good you too. What would you do? Would you just marry your girlfriend even if you're not in love with her? She is the mother of my child! Or would you tell the wife who you're really in love with. Help
2006-10-24 09:17:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marry your girlfriend and be a good father. That's the best thing for you right now. This will make you a good friend, a good husband, and a good father. But if you marry your friend's wife, then you will destroy his marrage. You would embarass your girlfriend. And you would shame yourself and your son. Should you do the latter, invite me to the jerry springer episode.
2006-10-24 09:22:40 · answer #1 · answered by Bmenace 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oooh that is a tough, tough, question.
Dude you are in such a jam. You can't covet the man's wife - that's a no no. No matter how much you "love" her. You may be infatuated with her, it's a very convincing state. Imagine once you two got together the "love" disappears *poof* and you're left with the wreckage.
How are you "sure she feels the same way"? She told you? Anything less than that is your imagination.
Dude I would give serious consideration to moving to the next town and keeping distance from this situation. I am always pro-love but this sounds very sticky. And don't marry the other girl if you don't totally adore her. Good luck!
2006-10-24 09:28:38 · answer #2 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not in love with your girlfriend but she is the mother of your baby it probally would be best not to marry her. you will have plenty of time to get your life straightened out and don't steel your friends wife. That is wrong and will end up hurting you in the future. Chances are you'll lose your friend,girlfriend,respect from your child,and hurt many people in the process. Remember that God has a plan in everyone's life, if times seem hard now they'll be soon to straighten out. Good luck to you hope my advice was useful
2006-10-24 09:24:28 · answer #3 · answered by jake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever you want. But be aware that you will reap hate if you destroy your friends family. That is ia fact.
One thing that life has shown me is that if you truly give yourself a chance there will always be a better woman, if for no other reason than that you have become wise enough to choose better.
Besides, how arrogant to think that this woman would be faithful to you if she left her husband for his best friend. Are you willing to bet that you are so fabulous that she wouldn't leave you? She has issues. You shouldn't be in this situation, but she REALLY shouldn't be in this situation.
2006-10-24 09:33:58 · answer #4 · answered by Big Marc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way don't tell her. She is a married woman !!! Secondly, don't get married to your gf even though you have a child with her. If you don't love her, you'll just end up getting a divorce.....
2006-10-24 10:12:38 · answer #5 · answered by crazydogg_2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you want me to tell you break up one family and leave your kid alone. You need to lie in the bed you made and stay with your kid. The other guy who is your friend will still be your friend
2006-10-24 09:24:22 · answer #6 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and girlfriend need to move....to create distance from your friends girl........then see where you and your gf stand.....if their is a chance.....if not... then go get girl from your friend.....u 2 move far away & start a new life together......if it fails......dont come back home......good things wont b waiting 4 u. too dangerous a game 4 me.....been there.....done that! not good.........i say love the one your with dude.....u dont need drama.
2006-10-24 11:20:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friends how you feel and then get away from them. Make new friends.
2006-10-24 09:30:33 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would advise saying nothing as love wears off and its likely lust, you'll be wrecking two households you know, and anything you say will be used against you in a divorce court
2006-10-24 09:36:00 · answer #9 · answered by paulisfree2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy
2006-10-24 09:20:01 · answer #10 · answered by severler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋