If you are Bi ? I find a womans body very sexy... But I have a boyfriend. I have never had sex with a lady... But Im sure its nice!
2006-10-24 09:03:26 · 7 answers · asked by Gayle B 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I knew I was bisexual when the feeling that I got when a man was around was the same that I got when a woman was around.
2006-10-24 09:18:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to have experience with members of either gender to be bisexual (take it from me, a bisexually-identified virgin!), nor do you have to have simultaneous relationships with men and women. Neither do you have to like/feel sexual attraction to both men and women equally, or want the same relationships with each (i.e. emotional AND sexual with each). All that's required to qualify you as bisexual is having sexual attraction towards each sex, no matter in what degree or the preference. If you 'find a woman's body very sexy', it is probable that you are bisexual, although there are many people who can acknowledge the sexual attractiveness of the same/opposite sex while never wanting to act on it, thereby making them straight/gay. It sounds to me that you feel being bi is a positive or at least neutral thing, so however you choose to identify- straight, bicurious, or full-on bisexual- you'll be fine with it. If you weren't so, I might refer you to a great article I read where the author very humorously pointed out that we don't live in a vaccuum- sex sells and advertisers make everyone, women especially, dripping sex. How could one not see if and get uncomfortable/wonder/dream/fantastize? But you'll be fine, I think. The way you know you're bi is if you could imagine yourself enjoying sex with a woman sometime in the future- which I think you can! Just remember that no one can use that bisexual status to insinuate ANYTHING negative or positive about you, nor must you go out and have sex with a woman to substantiate it, or engage in polyamory/group sex, etc., etc.. Love your boyfriend, confide to him, but don't let this affect that relationship, if true love is there. Experiment if need be, but only for yourself. If you choose to engage in polyamory/group sex, do so with extreme care- it's an iffy undertaking. And celebrate bisexuality!
2006-10-24 10:23:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the definition of bisexual is attraction to both sexes sexually and emotionally. many lean more toward one or the other sex and this is often referred to as primary and secondary attraction.
i got this definition in my sociology class.
this feeling you have i dont think it would just go away, and if you have a relationship with a woman im sure you are going to like it. it is different than man. its soft and tender and easier to fall in love...
2006-10-24 11:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by Delfina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I've just had "those feelsing" for people of both sexes, so I just knew as soon as I became aware of all that happy intimacy stuff.
2006-10-24 11:37:26 · answer #4 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try it out and see what you think. if you like it, you very wellcould be
2006-10-24 17:29:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to be the first... email me!!
2006-10-24 09:05:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know. i am not bi
2006-10-24 16:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋