My crush does like me, I am pretty sure. I like him too(a lot), and I don't know what to do. He's really sweet. My friends tell me to talk to him, but I am shy. Also, my parents don't allow me dating in HS. They're extremely strict! My dad will probably get mad if he finds out I like someone; he thinks it's a bit slutty. Ugh. I am a goody goody two shoes. All of my friends tell me they'd go out with their crush. My heart tells me to try to go out with him, but my brain tells me to listen to my logical side. What do I do?
I don't wanna hurt his feelings.
I am 15.5 on a side note. I'm the kind of person who cares a lot about getting into a good college.
He's a really nice person. I think the only reason he hasn't asked me out yet (he knows I like him) is cuz someone told him I wasn't allowed to date
2006-10-24 09:01:53 · 16 answers · asked by kiki 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Just know that the wrong decision will stop your life and flip you upside down. I was 15.5 and went for a crush against my parents wishes. I had a 3.7 GPA college lined up and BAMMM I got pregnant, now I am 25 un-educated and struggling in life because of my HS crush. I was goody goody too, girl please think before you decide.
2006-10-24 09:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by KEL971 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Listen to your logical side. I know at your age that "dating" is in, and you are really starting to like guys. But by the way you described yourself (goody goody) and the way you described him (crush), then I wouldn't worry about it too much if your parents insist that you shouldn't date. Maybe a group activity at school you guys can hang out and "date" that way! Good luck and keep up your thoughts...they are great!
2006-10-24 09:38:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That use to happen to me! Because my parent are really religious and care about my future, they don't allow me to date. They're afraid that I would end up being pregnant and ruined my life. I suggest that you guys should get to know each other first. Find out what his interest are and what he likes to do. If you guys find out that you really do like him a lot. Then I suggest that you ask him to talk to your parent. My boyfriend actually came over and talk to my parent. At first they did not approve of him. But when they get to know him more they started letting me date. By that time we were already in college.
So just get to know each other first so that you don't make mistake.
2006-10-24 09:11:11 · answer #3 · answered by strawberry_kiss_gurlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You parents only want what is best for you, but maybe you should try talking to them and see if they will be to ease up a little. Explain to them that you will carry yourself in a respectful manner. If you haven;t done anything for the to not trust you, then you probably wont have a problem getting them to ease up a little. Ask them if they will allow you to go out on chaperoned dates or if you can go out in a group. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-10-24 09:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by juicie813 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to go to a public place that he will be at. If he likes you he will make you aware. PLEASE don't come on here in a couple of months and ask us how to tell your dad you are pregnant!!!!
Don't be in a rush to date so soon, you have your whole life ahead of you, and don't listen to your friends, they usually don't have YOUR best interest at heart, not at that young of an age. I know you trust them, but as some one older and wiser, Use your head, don't follow peer pressure, in the end you only let yourself down, (or in your case, your dad too).
2006-10-24 09:11:55 · answer #5 · answered by purpledragonflyjrh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you and you like him, you shouldn't need to go out. You might not agree with what your parents say, but it would be best to listen to them. It saves a lot of guilt and disrespect - take it from somebody who knows! :D Maybe you could talk -not debate with -to your parents. Mature is the way to go! good luck.
2006-10-24 09:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by Julia C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it....just dont get caught...like go with a group of friends and meet up somewhere...
as bad as that sounds when you really think about it , there are times to take risks about tredding the line with your parents.
Because theres going to be so much out there in the real world, and your parents arent always going to tell you what to do.
just make your choices wisely
2006-10-24 09:08:01 · answer #7 · answered by marleycait 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents love you and want the best for you they know what can happen to a 15 year old girl especially these days. Listen to them. You're too young to date. Why rush it, you've got the rest of you're life to deal with this. Enjoy your youth.
2006-10-24 09:05:06 · answer #8 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well baby doll I'm sixteen and my parents have just given me the privilege to talk on the phone to boys. yes i do have a boyfriend and he is very cute. what you need to do is have a very mature talk with your parents telling them that they have to realize that you are getting older and you want to have a little freedom but you also have to promise them that you wont let boys interfere with your plans of getting out of high school tell them that you love them and whenever you need to talk about anything you will always confide in them
2006-10-24 09:13:24 · answer #9 · answered by erica c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOunds like he is being respectfull. Remember, you are still in their house, that means their rules. So stay friends/ I know this is corny but the best relationships start as friendships.
2006-10-24 09:07:10 · answer #10 · answered by tera_duke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋