My mom is one of the most beautiful women in the world.Everyone i know, my grandmom(dads mom), my aunts and all our neighbours are jealous of her.And im not half as beautiful as my mom, so they get some kinda vicious pleasure out of pointing out to me that im not as beautiful as her.Im fine with it, infact im proud to have such a beautiful mother.But, why do ppl have to take out their jealousies on me ?I never did anything to them, neither did my mom.
2006-10-24 08:49:25 · 6 answers · asked by Sunrise 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I grew up with this issue, when I was in 5th grade my mother was a Hooters girl.........can you imagine, all my guy friends would come over and want to hang out with my mother, everyone had a crush on her even my boyfriends. I hated it, shes still beautiful and has bigger boobs than I can imagine..........now I think its great though, Im proud to be like "this is my mother", hopefully I'll look like her when Im 40, If you go to my yahoo 360 theres a pic of her on there, her names runaway girl.........
2006-10-24 09:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by BrittyGirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your question is kind of confusing. It looks like you have a problem with having such a beautiful mom, but in your explanation it seems like you don't have any problems at all, but people in your environment do. All i think is that you should try to stay proud of your mom.. and yourself.. and it's time for other people to learn that beauty isn't everything! Good luck!
2006-10-24 08:59:08 · answer #2 · answered by E D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vanity is such an insecurity. Age will humble her and you will have your moment to shine. It's so silly to feel accepted for looks alone. Confidence holds more beauty to be quite honest. Ask any man. They will tell you all the physical features they love about women, but for long term they would settle for someone that is sure of herself.
2006-10-24 11:54:50 · answer #3 · answered by sweet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but I have one worse than you, my mother and sister are both tall and really beautiful, smart, funny, and outgoing. I am short and shy. My sister, who is 5 years older than me, used to tell me how ugly I was, that I was fat, had big feet...the list can go on for pages. It hurt a lot. Even now, when I look in the mirror I sometimes hear my sister's voice in my head. But when I was about 17 I grew into my skin, my body, my feet and am generally happy with myself. I also have something my mother and sister have always wanted, but could never have. I have a perfect head full of thick curly hair (also intelligence). Their hair is so straight and fine that they can't even get a perm. What's even better is that my niece is growing up to look just like me. I wonder how my sister feels about that. lol
2006-10-24 09:11:00 · answer #4 · answered by VJ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow... I wish I knew. I've been told that my mom is really beautiful too...but I've also been told by those same people that I look just like her...only prettier! I'm sorry...and remember...its not what's on the outside that counts...its what's on the inside!
And...ignore the things that those people say...maybe you should try telling them how you feel about it! That might work!
2006-10-24 08:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not really about the outside... The inside counts more.
However, try telling them about how you feel towards this issue, tell them you're not jealous or anything, and that you're EXTREMELY proud of having her =)!!!
I'm like you, the difference is that she's amazing from the inside not the outside. Tell me how you'll feel about that huh!
2006-10-24 10:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋