the girl that she plays with goes to the same school. please help.barb
2006-10-24 08:19:16 · 9 answers · asked by bao1959ca 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
confine them don't tell them they can't talk and be friends just not all the time encourage your daughter to not talk to that girl alot tell her to find other friends and don't let them talk at home cause that could lead to more trouble at home and at school try to confine them to only seeing and talking at school then they will gradually come apart
2006-10-24 08:39:10 · answer #1 · answered by GREATGRL 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get her involved with other activities that she likes & with different friends who may share the same interests.Ask your daughter also if there is other friends that she would like to have over sometimes.Or maybe even have the troubled one spend time with your daughter in your home and under a watchful eye.
2006-10-24 15:23:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My experience is that you can't stop it. I forbid my daughter from playing with two sisters and she snuck over there anyway. That friend is not getting her in trouble, your daughter is making decisions that's getting her in trouble. If you remove the girl, she'll just pick another friend just like her. You might need to find out why your daughter chooses to hang out with people like that and work from there. Good luck.
2006-10-24 15:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not be able to. She is going to have to learn on her own that this young lady isn't good for her. If you try to keep them apart she may start sneaking to see her. Try taking to her about the young lady and why the things that are happening is wrong. Hopefully she will take your advise and avoid her or maybe she will be able to help the young lady by leading by example. remember the young lady isn't getting her in trouble but that she is getting herself in trouble by being with her. She must learn to steer clear of trouble.
2006-10-24 15:29:13 · answer #4 · answered by juicie813 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my mom had exactly the same problem with me when I was younger. The worst you can do is to try and "forbid" her to see the friend, because then she will do it just to rebel even if she doesn't even like the kid. Let her ride out the friendship and see for herself that the friend is bad for her, because if you are the attentive and good mother that you seem to be, she will figure it out herself. Just GUIDE don't FORCE anything.
2006-10-24 15:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by iluvafrica 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you putting all the blame on the other girl? Your daughter is just as much at fault as she is. Open your eyes, mom!
2006-10-24 15:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur daughter to think aboutwhat she isgoing to do when she is around her friend.and make the right idea
2006-10-24 15:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by DA BOMB---* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant stop them from being friends, you have to talk to your daughtor and tell her that these things are wrong, and you will ground her from playing with her friend if she continues to misbehave.
2006-10-24 15:22:35 · answer #8 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl all you have to do is tell that lil girl that you dont want her around your daughter, then if that dont work tell the lil girls mother& father, than if that dont work MOVE!!!!!!
2006-10-24 15:23:50 · answer #9 · answered by Pansy c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋