more friend help...?

Question

ok..wel..my friend (eli) told me tht my other friend (marrisa) told him one of my most embarrsing secrets. marrisa said she didnt tell him and eli said she did. there both one of my very good friends. but when ever i ask her if she did ask him she just walks away. also i mean how in the WORLD would eli know anyways. how should i find out whos telling the truth..with out using a lie michene.

*****if she did tell him.

Answer 1

get the 2 of them together and then ask the question in front of the both of them, and see if she lies in front of him.

Answer 2

this is all about trust you wont be able 2 tell without using a lie machine but if she did tell it then its up to u 2 decide weather you want to talk too her again how about just lettin it go because if you do find out maybe you wont want to talk to her again and maybe that will change your life and make you have regrets however the choice is yours good luck x

Answer 3

I was in a similar situation....where I told my friend one of my secrets and basically told the whole school, and denied it later...so what I did I went up to everyone and asked...they told me it was her so right we not talking.....If you know for sure that she told it, then you need to let her go...that lets you know you cant trust her with anything else.....

Answer 4

you don't you get over it. Very childish and he say she say-ish. Move on and know that neither one is really your true friend. Keep them around but don't tell Marissa anymore secrets. Learn from mistakes and true secrets are the ones you would tell no one.

Answer 5

well you already are embarrsed right so well just ask him who told him...I'm sure he won't lie to you about it:)

Answer 6

Did you tell anyone else? If not then it would have had to come from her!