His father has threaten me.
He's trying to get rape changes against me.
Which I don't get is, My bf is 18 and I'm 16.
He's not a minor. I am. His father's trying to do that to me.
My bf's not retarded, just has limited english and bipolar.
And he don't lived with his father. He lives with his mother. So his mother has customy of him. My mom has customy of me. So he can't do nothing right? My mom and his mom letting me have the baby and raise it.
2006-10-24 07:54:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I don't have problems with my English!
I'm 7 weeks pregnant.
2006-10-24 08:12:33 · update #1
See what problems pre-marital sex causes? And sweetheart, it's spelled "custody".
2006-10-24 07:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by CelebrateMeHome 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to start a family with someone who has medical issues that later will affect you all? Will he be able to support you and the baby? Without an education there are very limited jobs for you why would you want to limit yourself to just surviving. You are 16 and when you are 21 you will want different things and you will think differently and you will regret the decisions you are making right now. If you had any love for yourself you would think not about right now but about 5 years from now and where you will be without and education and for sure without this relationship because I assure you that this will not last as you will be changing as you get older! Please don't make the same mistake millions of girls make everyday. Enjoy your childhood because being an adult isn't all that you think it is.
2006-10-24 08:03:56 · answer #2 · answered by Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh it's not going to work.. the father is just going to make himself into the *** he already is.. just this time everyone will watch the display.
shouldn't dad be considering not only his options but his sons and yours?
he's not a very bright bulb is he?
any um... why'd you get knocked up so early and by a son of a dimwit? oh man... run!
run!
sounds like hell in the making and it's not going to get any better.
if you keep child use those tax funded programs out there.. get help! there are social workers.. people at city hall and others who will give you information on what to do and some will do job searching and get you a job.. but you have to try and keep it in order to get all that comes with the job itself.. along with the benefits and assistance.
sounds like that family has major tramas to deal with and haven't solved them yet... don't let a child grow up in such insanity.
hope you take all this to heart.. and think about it.. you and that kid of yers can have a great life without the drama.
2006-10-24 08:04:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be mad, yet he would not have something to do with it! it quite is your toddler no longer his and that's his father regardless in case you and he like it or no longer. you chosen this ineffective beat and now you're gonna could handle it. confirm you have slightly communicate with toddler Daddy and tell him, "i've got taken to be conscious which you do no longer abide by the courtroom order while it consists of your toddler. you come once you please and contact once you please which isn't the contract. you may prepare while it states you may, or you will could take him returned to courtroom and adjust the visitation order." He may be ordered to pay greater by way of fact the less time with him potential greater money for the care for the time of the time he's meant to be there... As for the boyfriend, he needs to returned off... it quite is not his corporation... don't be mad at him yet make it sparkling...
2016-10-16 08:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like this guy has a screw loose.my daughter is 17.her boyfriend turned 20.in June.he is in college to be a doctor and there baby girl is due in October.people for get that in the old days men were in the 30s or more marring 12 year old.how disquisition is that.well if his father keeps threaten you go to the police.good luck to the both of you and your baby.
2006-10-24 08:15:58 · answer #5 · answered by bassetluv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your boyfriends father can press charges. The only one that I think is YOUR mother. Because your boyfriend is older and 18 and older. His father probably isn't to happy with you two being together and having a child so soon. Every parent has concerns and this on is his.
2006-10-24 08:00:52 · answer #6 · answered by bigmama_8099 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend can have rape charges pressed against him because he is not a minor and you are. If your boyfriend's father is threatening you, you can go to the police. He can't pin any charges on you at this point.
2006-10-24 07:58:40 · answer #7 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gee... I do pity you... You are still at a very young age.... 16 years old? Gosh~ How are you going to raise the baby? I hope your BF will find/ get a job soon... Please be a responsible parents... Do not neglect your child... Whatever it is, I wish you both all the best & good luck...
2006-10-24 08:30:56 · answer #8 · answered by nurfarizah1979 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cant get rape charges againts if he tried the only rape charges that would happened is the father of that kid because hes 18 and your 16
2006-10-24 07:57:43 · answer #9 · answered by jennifertrinitysky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wont criticize you like everyone else, just a plain and simple answer. No he can not press charges against you since his son is 18.
2006-10-25 08:58:19 · answer #10 · answered by billybobcowboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His dad cant do anything. Dont worry. You're underage, if his dad tried to take it to the police, in all likelihood his own son would get in trouble for rape.
2006-10-24 07:59:28 · answer #11 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋