is this normal?

Question

i ran into this guy about 8 months ago and we really hit it off talking,i was still bitter about catching my ex of a few years cheating(they are friends)he listened and understood,he drove me home that night and i invited him to stay,i asked him to sleep in the bed with me,he did,i asked him to put his arm around me,he did till i slept,he was such a gentlman,the next morning things were awkward when he left,a mutual freind told me he liked me but is freaked about my ex(who is still trying to get me back)i saw this guy once since that night and he came to me and said"your killing me"my ex was also there so we had to keep quiet.I have thought of him ever since.there is this party coming up where i will see him,it has been 6 months since i last saw him,is it normal that i still think about him and am going to be a nervous wreck to see him?I will play it cool when i do see him though.

Answer 1

Not unusual- but you need to reassure this guy that your ex means nothing to you. If he decides to go out with you he may gain a girlfriend but lose a guy buddy. No big deal in my book. People come and go and if it's a woman or a male friend- I'll go with the woman cause I might spend the rest of my life with her.

Have a great day!!!

Answer 2

Your dwelling about a decision if you want to be with him or not. Take it slow and ask him if he wants you as much as you want him. Tell him how much you think of him and don't let your past experience interrupt your trust for another!

Answer 3

if ur not into the other guy anymore why worry?
the new one sounds like he's into u i say go for it and who cares what anyone else thinks!
the other guy needs to realize u want a better life and a better man
and if he doesnt, he needs to get over himself

Answer 4

yes maam u will be a nervous wreck and yes it is normal to feel this way i don't thynk u'll b able to play it kool buh best of luck

Answer 5

Don't let the stupid ex stand in the way! He had his chance and blew it!