Any suggestions on how to help her reach an orgasm?
2006-10-24 06:33:42 · 25 answers · asked by bwiley123 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
This is not uncommon. To get her to orgasm while inside you have to reach her G-spot. Try different positions, be creative and let your imagination run wild. Also there are some women who can only be brought to orgasm by clitoral stimulation. If you find that you have exhausted yourself and she is still unsatisfied, try finishing her off with your tongue or fingers. Another way to do this, would be to have her lie on her back, introduce a clean finger inside and do a "come here" motion with the finger(s). This will be sure to stimulate her G-spot. For added pleasure, have her use a vibrator externally. Its a guarantee. Good luck.
2006-10-24 06:39:59 · answer #1 · answered by lyfsavr1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to try diffrent postitions.. Try her on top or have her put a pillow underneath her buttock and try that, Or have her put her knees as far back by her ears and try that or have her lye on her side with on leg bent and enter her from a behind position all of those postitions are to stimulate the clit when having sex and reach orgasm.. Also go to amazon and they have books on it that will also help.
2006-10-24 06:40:03 · answer #2 · answered by Alexis221 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find her G Spot. Many women do not reach orgasm by penetration...or so I am told. Perhaps you could add some clitoral stimulation while you are pounding away?
2006-10-24 06:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are more women than not who can not achieve an orgasm through intercourse. Why don't you try oral stimulation. This gives direct contact to the clitoris and should bring most women to climax. I know that most men think, the harder they thrust and the faster, the better for both. Not true. I know most women need some form of genital stimulation. Try it, see what she thinks.
2006-10-24 06:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by june clever 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont feel bad, most women orgasm through clitoral excitement only. This is not rare for her, or most women. I cant have an orgasm by vaginal intercourse alone. My suggestion would be to stimulate her more.
2006-10-24 06:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by pegasis 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most women dont have an orgasm from just penetration. Maybe go down on her or have her use a little clit vibe while you are inside her. Works for me :)
2006-10-24 06:35:45 · answer #6 · answered by PeAcHeS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most women have ahard time having an organsim this way. You ought to focus on foreplay before an after sex....or maybe a lot or oral sex will do. You can also bring in some toys that will stimulate her a bit more.
2006-10-24 06:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by Cbauer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, those other answers were rude. sometimes i dont get one unless im on top. & those ones are much better anyway, try that, some women just have a hard time getting them, its not always what the guy is doing wrong. fore play helps ALOT. if i dont get that, i have a hard time reaching the big O. hope that helps! :)
2006-10-24 06:38:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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A guy always cums fast when its their first time. and especially if he's been waiting for a long time. Guys are erect at least 5 times a day so what I would do is some foreplay until he ejaculates or the both of you for that matter its not fair that he has orgasms and you don't so get him to do you first and then once you finish he will be more than ready for his orgasm. then use a condom because that cuts down the sensations for him if he feels he is about to come prematurely then tell him to come out and do some more foreplay on you so he has time to calm down. the condom should work but if you want a baby tell him to take the condom of before ejaculation and then finish in you. the longer you wait to make him come with foreplay the quiker it will be because he has to get it out of him.
He also does need time because you are the only one he has been with so once he gets used to it, you can really enjoy it once he gets his techniques down pat. Tell him what you like. Get some books and videos also until you both are experienced. Or you could even have a quickie in the morning, when you get home and then at night. he will diffently last longer because his mind has been free twice already. You get on top of him and you control the situation. Also my boyfriend tells me that he thinks about none sexual things for a while to help control him, tell him to think about a sport or something that calms him. If that doesn't work then just do IT over until you are satisfied
2017-02-16 21:52:19 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try oral before hand and right when she is about to go to the edge.... STOP! and start having intercourse. Or youi could go out and buy like a Silver Bullet or something of that nature and press it into he CLIT while your in her. i am sure it will send her over the edge
2006-10-24 06:40:47 · answer #10 · answered by Nate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋