iv bin goin out with an asian lad for about 2months.he told me yesterday e doesnt want anythin seriouse only fun.i was so upset that i kissed some one els i no two wrongs doesnt make a right but i was hurtin,i luv him but i now know i mean nuffin 2him just a shag piece.i wana say its over but i dont wana lose him
2006-10-24 06:16:41 · 15 answers · asked by jamie lee c 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You've got to decide wether you'd rather have something with him, or nothing at all.
You know he doesn't want anything serious, and that is unlikely to change.
If you continue seeing him, you are probably going to fall deeper in love with him, and the hurt would be even more a few months down the line.
Although it hurts, it might be best to end things now, before you get too far in.
Focus on finding someone who loves you and values you - don't be used.
If you do stay with him, he is likely to hurt you - he has already shown that he doesn't value you or care about you. What is to stop him doing anything worse to you? Also, if you are messing around with him, you might miss out on a chance of something special with someone else.
It will hurt for a while if you end things, but it might be best. Take care of yourself, treat yourself a bit and try to heal your broken heart.
Try to resist kissing people on the rebound, it will only make you feel worse. You might feel better if you spend some time alone, so you can work out what you want - you don't need to rush anything.
Hope you can make the descision, best wishes.
2006-10-24 06:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Firstly, there is no way you love him if you snogged someone else. However, if you're right and you are just something for him to shag, then why should you love him in the first place?! You must have some dignity and self-respect, surely? If you're happy to basically be a "tart" for him, then fine - but it cheapens you and it means that you could be missing out on someone who really cares about you and wants to spend his life with you. You need to decide what you think you're worth, what you want from a relationship and whether you deserve better. It's clear from your question that deep down you are not happy to just be an object of sexual gratification.
2006-10-24 13:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by John P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just an Asian lad practicing on a Non Asian girl
They can't sh*g their own otherwise it brings the girls family into disrepute and she gets taken away and disowned / killed / whatever.
When will you learn?
2006-10-25 18:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by alexinscarborough 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't massive. Starving children around the world is massive.
Grow up and find another boyfriend. If he's using you just to shag and you are allowing it,Stop! you are better than that. be smart.
2006-10-24 13:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He knows he can always come to you when he is in need of.....
Dont let him do this to you he is just using you..Go out with other guys and let him know about it and if you are just a piece to him then it wont bother him to see you with someone else. but if it does bother him to see you with someone else then you know he cares about you more then just a piece of azz..good luck..
2006-10-24 13:29:32 · answer #5 · answered by bllnickie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is yr back bone!! You go out and kiss as many ppl as you want, he havin some fun with you. So go and have some fun yrsel... drop the looser!!!
2006-10-24 13:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If he only wants sex and nothing serious then he isn't worth bothering with. I know it hurts and sympathise with you but you WILL meet someone else who is worthy of your love and will treat you right. You deserve better!!!
2006-10-24 13:19:53 · answer #7 · answered by nettyone2003 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
id leave him him alone. if hes asian then thers a good chance hes muslim & unless you are too then your wasting your time. hes treating you like a sex toy. wise up.
2006-10-24 13:56:53 · answer #8 · answered by hunter935@btopenworld.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he does not want anything serious , if you are loooking for more than he is move on and find someone who is worthy of your feelings
2006-10-24 13:20:12 · answer #9 · answered by ♥fluffykins_69♥ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
u have to let this guy go uve dunn nothing wrong and 2 wrongs do make a right
2006-10-24 13:19:00 · answer #10 · answered by dr_gonzo_1974 3 · 0⤊ 5⤋