I feel as if no one likes me and that im not good enough for them..?

Answer 1

Then look elsewhere for friends because the people around you don't deserve you if that's how they make you feel. You are good enough and the longer you hang around people who make you feel bad the more you'll come to expect and accept it. Move on before it becomestoo big a deal to cope with.

Answer 2

You have to build your self confidence. The problem exists only within your head.

List everything you don't like about yourself and either accept it or change it!

Then list everything you like most about yourself and take it a step further by improving upon these great qualities.

I think you are being a little self conscious. Most often, people are worried about their own problems and are not focused so much on you or everyone else.

Become outgoing and try out new experiences. Tackle problem solving situations and try to gain useful knowledge you can apply to your everyday life. Experiences build a person's character.

Go to the library and read some books on self-improvement. Always try to look your best at all times. If you look like a million dollars, you will feel like a million dollars!

Remember, at the end of the day, only you can judge yourself. Always be yourself and be proud of who you are. You are a beautiful person inside and only you will ever know how truly beautiful you are!

Answer 3

You sound like you have very low self esteem. You really need to like and love yourself, before any one else can. What makes you think you are not good enough for them? Most of the time, no one is better than any one else. You need to find a way to build up your self esteem. There are several good books and Cd's that can help. You can even usually find them at your local library if you would rather check them out, before you decide to buy.
I am sure you are a good person. you just need to learn that you are.
Good luck.

Answer 4

You say you feel as if "NOONE" likes you and your not good enough for "THEM", well,
How do YOU feel about YOURSELF? Maybe you think that others feel about you what YOU actually feel about YOU.

Take some time and don't worry about others, find some things that YOU like about YOU. If YOU can't, there is someone, a parent, a friend, a teacher, someone who knows you....ask them what it is they like about YOU and start from there.

If you can't think of anyone, listen to me..... I think you are a courageous and brave young woman to express something so sensitive and so personal... and I belive that you are very intelligent AND ambitious because you WANT help with this feeling AND I believe that you will take the next step in becoming a person who likes herself and who feels that "YOU" are good enough for "YOU".
"Become who you were born to be", you may find that others admire you and respect you. Stay BRAVE, AMBITIOUS, INTELLIGENT and YOU will find your way. Others will see it too.

Answer 5

hey hi i m romeo007

and i want to say that just keep urself on others side of u.

and think that what is the problem in u, y the other ppl do not like u. and if u find nothing than think that all the persons r fool and and they dont know what r they leaving behind,

never get upset i also hv the same prob...

i can b ur friend and i can guide u better i think so but i m not perfect in that. note my id [e-mail]


thanks for reading this.
ur friend
romeo007

Answer 6

Sometimes I feel that way...and its bad because when you start to think that way other people will too...it becomes a self fulfilling prophesy...you have low self esteem...try doing things for other people...such as volunteering...or it is really bad try some medication...but it is important to build you own sense of worth and like yourself....noone will like you and you will not be good enough for them until you think differently. Try an experiment force yourself to view it differently for a day....feel cocky if you have to and notice the difference.

Answer 7

You need to do things that will increase your self esteem. Do you do things that make you feel like crap about yourself? A trap people get into is setting themselves up. They do things that prove their bad opinions of themselves and then end up back where they started. With a bad self image... Try something new...learn to surf or take up photography and start framing really cool pictures... Face your fears and you will grow. If you don't, you will never find the self esteem you need to feel whole. Hope this helped.

Answer 8

That is not really a question. It is just a staement with a question mark at the end.

I bet you are good enough for them though, and I am sure some people like you.

Answer 9

Maybe that's why they don't like you: You have low self esteem.
That's not an attractive quality. People with high self esteem are more likely to succeed, hence we seek out those characteristics in a mate.

I suggest you start working on yourself before you seek a bf/gf.

Answer 10

Well if that how you feel...you are probably right, and thats what they see too!

You reflect what you feel about yourself to others, so if you are feeling like this, then you are acting like it too and nobody wants to be with you. Check yourself! You should start building the person you want to be...once you start to freflect a positive person, you will attract positive!!