i am working on self improvement! and I have some insecurity issues! and to over come this i need to put myself in vunerable positions in life where one may get hurt...
not looking to set my self up to get hurt but how can one practice this?
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that's where i'm getting this help from!
2006-10-24 06:11:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
normally i run and hide at risk like this! so if i try to put myself in one i can start to learn how to over come this! and better myself as a person instead of not owning up to myself and blaming other people!
2006-10-24 06:23:06 · update #1
Perhaps another perspective would provide the net desire without attempting to manipulate ones relationship to life?
How about simply accepting that you are sensitive [tend to take things you experience personally] and accept this as OK? While at the same time giving consideration to some realities that you may not have previously considered?
Realities such as: at your Core, you are a Perfect Soul; That due to certain Karmic debts... you are intended to experience more intensely than some others, the events of life; That part of what you are "learning" by being more vulnerable is a heightened sense of your own depth of emotionality... something that cannot be learned otherwise. Unknown by most is that such intense experiencing of ones emotions is the way in which we gain both Knowledge and Empathy. Ultimately leading to ones Spiritual evolution.
Peace
2006-10-24 06:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by docjp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it's an inevitable part of life to be in a vunerable position from time to time. To have to risk rejection or risk getting hurt or discouraged. It's never easy and it's certainly not fun. No one can teach a sure fire method for feeling better about yourself. There's pharmaceuticals and counseling but that's no guarantee. At best, they give you a platform upon which to build on. In the meantime, don't shrink away from life and try to have a little faith in yourself.
2006-10-24 06:20:43 · answer #2 · answered by Jay Tee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just from life experience even when I wasnt looking to get hurt it tends to happen.....So regardless you may find yourself in the same situation without actually trying to find yourself in one. And then you will know what its like and as a person find ways to overcome it or deal with it. Either you move on or get stuck in life.
2006-10-24 06:20:38 · answer #3 · answered by Holla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 08:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree. You do not need to make yourself vulnerable to increase understanding. Insecurity is the seeming lack of understanding the true person and disappears when you begin to know your true nature and self.
2006-10-24 06:18:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are always looking out how you can get hurt and being overly cautious, you will bring it on yourself. You have to try and have trust that you will make the proper decsions. Follow your heart but listen to you mind.
2006-10-24 06:22:34 · answer #6 · answered by De 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋