i let my boyfriend that i love and have been going out with for six months finger me last weekend and i dont mind and really love him. but can you get infections from it and i also wanted to give oral but i dont no if you get infections as i dont have very good sex education. i am being 100% serious and i ahte people who think im not!! so please just honest answers. i am 14 by the way!!!
2006-10-24 06:07:30 · 16 answers · asked by xbeautyx122 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
go 4 it doent matter how old u are as long as hes around the same age who gives a s**t its your life and 2 do with infections as long as hes not be dipping his hand in s**t no there shouldnt be any infections
2006-10-24 06:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by cosworthrep 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have just seen some of your other Q`s but thought i would reply 2 this one. For 1 - i hate that word fingering!!! 2- u might think you love this guy but dont feel pressurised into `satisfying` his needs and wants 3 - educate yourself more about sex and risks....you dnt want 2 end up with something or pregnant 4 - why are u asking how do u tell your mum u have been fingered in 1 of your other Q`s! Dont be so silly! The reason i think u are takin the micky is for asking that....
2006-10-24 09:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by Lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young at 14 really, but I dont expect anything we say on here is going to stop you, so here goes....... fingering can pass on an infection if he has dirty fingers. Make sure he has clean hands and has cut his nails. You DONT want a cut up there!
You can get infections from oral sex, so be careful. Please dont rush into sex with him, I know 6 months seems like a long time to be with someone, but at your age you should just take things slowly, so a bit of foreplay type stuff is fine, its pretty much what other kids your age are doing, its just teens being teens and discovering their sexuality. Like I said earlier, nothing anyone says to you is going to stop you doing it, so you might as well get advice on being careful.
Dont rush into anything you feel uncomfortable with, be safe and take care.
I see a lot of very young girls asking for the morning after pill (I work in a pharmacy) and they are so frightenend by the stupidity of what theyve done, so please lay off actual sex until you have a bit more sex education and mature a bit more.
Lozz xx
2006-10-24 06:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by lozzielaws 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You're not going to get an STD, per se, from him touching you with his hands. However, common sense dictates that unclean hands could lead to some sort of infection. You have a delicate balance of yeast and beneficial bacteria in your vagina and anything that upsets it could lead to bacterial vaginitis or a yeast infection. Just make sure his hands are clean.
As for oral sex, yes, if someone has an STD or and STI they can transmit it via oral sex. Condoms and dental dams (a sheet of latex that can be laid over your privates when he performs oral on you) lessen the risk, but some STDs, like herpes can be transmitted even with a condom. If your boyfriend is also a virgin, then you shouldn't have anything to worry about, but if not, he should be tested for STDs before you have any sexual contact with him. There are many that can have no symptoms.
You really, really need to educate yourself before you go any further. Sex can be fun and enjoyable and all, but it's also very serious business. The consequences can be with you forever if you don't take steps to protect yourself. Before you have any further sexual contact with anyone, you should ask your doctor about the new vaccine for HPV; it's a virus that can potentially lead to cervical cancer and it's amazingly common so it's best to prevent it before you're exposed to it. Beyond that, you can visit your local Planned Parenthood (or their website) and get loads of information on other STDs (how they're transmitted and how to avoid them) as well as solid information on birth control. The behavior you're engaging in will eventually lead to sex (hopefully not for a few more years!) and you can only be safe on that path if you're armed with good information.
2006-10-24 07:03:39 · answer #4 · answered by mockingbird 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way you can get a infection from him fingering you is if him hand was not clean. Now about oral sex you could get std and maybe yestinfection but you can also get that having sex. And you can even get though if you are just rubbing on each other with nothing on and your stuff down the is tushing. You can even get pg that way too.They say the best why is to not have sex but come on who doesn't try it. the big thing to remember is when you have sex with someone you'er also sleeping with everyone they have slept with too. so be very smart about what you'er doing and be safe
2006-10-24 06:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why no longer have a chilled bathe or tub jointly formerly something sexual, then get him to apply a condom. even nevertheless it quite is not suitable, a minimum of you does no longer be stressful approximately an infection each and all the time. you mustn't get an infection from arms if he's a quite sparkling individual. As for the oral intercourse, the condom could help right here - attempt a flavoured one! Do you think of it may be a sturdy thought to speak on your boyfriend approximately your fears? additionally hit upon a sturdy e book or leaflet on sexually transmitted ailments (or use a seek engine) for extra documents. you may get written documents out of your physician's surgical technique or from an area wellbeing guidance/merchandising facility.
2016-10-16 08:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't like my answer. 14- and experimenting with little to no sex-ed will get you sick with STDs- pregnent---or worse. You want to play? Go to the nearest State free c;inic and see a Dr. get information get you free protection---unfortumatly it won't get you a new brain. Someone sticking theier dirty finger inside you will get you a nice infection....so you'll be sitting in a Dr.s office soon amyway. Why rush love for all that? Talk to a trusted adult, you might like what you hear.
2006-10-24 06:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by gramacarrie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to back off, and learn more about sex before practicing it. You are much too young at 14 to be doing stuff like that.
2006-10-24 06:12:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-02 10:09:03 · answer #9 · answered by Fromad59 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just relax, your way to young to be doing anything like that let alone worrying about it, as you get older you'll know what to do and how to do it, you'll just go with the flow. as your so worried and have no idea on anything that really suggests that you are to young to even start doing anything, and your definitely not in love its just infatuation at the moment, plus anything you do is illegal.
2006-10-24 08:21:53 · answer #10 · answered by abbie g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋