Hi Im really worried, so please answer thanx.!?

Question

i let my boyfriend that i love and have been going out with for six months finger me last weekend and i dont mind and really love him. but can you get infections from it and i also wanted to give oral but i dont no if you get infections as i dont have very good sex education. i am being 100% serious and i ahte people who think im not!! so please just honest answers

Answer 1

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Answer 2

Why not have a relaxing shower or bath together before anything sexual, then get him to use a condom. Even though this isn't perfect, at least you wouldn't be worrying about infection all the time. You shouldn't get infection from fingers if he's a reasonably clean person. As for the oral sex, the condom should help here - try a flavoured one!
Do you think it would be a good idea to talk to your boyfriend about your fears? Also find a good book or leaflet on sexually transmitted diseases (or use a search engine) for further info. You can get written info from your doctor's surgery or from a local health education/promotion facility.

Answer 3

I'm going to start by saying what every adult out here is thinking: If you have to ask, you're too young to be playing around.

Now, to seriously answer your question. If your boyfriend's fingers were not clean then yes you can get an infection. There is a very sensitive balance in that area of your body and many things can throw that balance off and cause a yeast infection.

Oral sex rarely causes any types of infections unless one is already present in either person (herpes is a prime example).

If your boyfriend has been sexually active before you, be very careful. There are many diseases that he could have that he may not know about yet and could pass on to you.

Please find an adult who you trust to discuss these things with. You can go to your local health department or planned parenthood office for this information. They are required by law to keep anything you discuss with them about your own reproductive system confidential even from your parents. Just please find someone who can help you learn and understand what can happen. Also, check out the links below for more information about a couple of the things I have mentioned.

Answer 4

First of all what you are doing leads to sex. And by the way you talk i can tell your very young.
you shouldn't be doing this stuff.
I'm sure you think that 6 months is a long time but that's no time compared to a life time. And oral is not the answer. You can get things that even Clorox won't wash off. So please wait until you at least know more about what you are doing

to answer your guestion yes you can get an infection from him sticking his finger in you. You might want to douce. If that doesn't work you may have to go to the doc

Answer 5

what ever you do even oral use a condom you can get flaverd ones you say you dont mind the things he is doing but dont do things if your not ready and make sure he is clean the condom is a must not being rude but if you carry on what you are doing your going to get a mouth full so use the condom yes thrush is an infection you get this way also dont forget Aids cant you ask someone for advise you really need to protect your own body.

Answer 6

First of all you sound very young, and I would advise halting ALL sexual activity until you are much older. Wouldn't you want to save yourself for you wedding night? That being said, to answer your questions, yes you can get an infection. Any type of nonsterile foreign object being introduced to the body can cause infections. As for you giving oral, you can contract so much from herpes to aids. Guys generally aren't one to tell their girls if they have an infection of any kind. They are more interested in getting their jollies off. If you ABSOLUTELY must perform fellatio on him, please use a condom. There are now flavored ones out there specifically for that purpose. I still think you should wait, and I hope you will. There is more to love and life than just sex.

Answer 7

Yes you may be able to get an infection from the finger method. You should use a rubber glove or put a condom on his finger so you can protect your self from getting any germs from your friend. If you give oral use a condom and if you receive oral use a dental dam ( female condom). Remember Safety First!

Answer 8

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Answer 9

ok.. lets go to the point.

when you left your bed in the morning, you are exposed to a lot of diseases. Amen.

And surely if you have sex in any way, you will be exposed.

Do you wash your hands before you eat? ok.... if you use your fingers, they must be clean, of course.

Sex is something serious, no matter your age, so, be careful.

Oral sex? ... use condom all the time, ...

Here we are not speaking about the convenience or inconvenience of making sex with somebody who is not necesarily your permanent partner, ... but in any case you should be careful.

First of all, fidelity and cleanliness.

Have a good time.

P.D.: Is your boyfriend ready to give and receive? ... or only to receive?

Answer 10

yea, if his hands are clean, you're safe...even if they're a bit dirty, you would only get a little itch, but nothing serious. and yes you can get and give via oral sex. if you truly want to practice safe sex (and yes oral is sex too), you can always use a flavored condom, made for oral sex or he can use a dental dam which is also typically flavored and made to lay over the vagina, but still offers sensation.