im thinking about getting the snip what do u think?

Question

im thinking about getting the snip im 31 what do u think

Answer 1

Just so you know, if you plan on having children afterwards, instead of a snip, they can tie it off with the possibility of a successful untie at a later date. Snip is permanent. I had the snip done as a Valentines day present for my wife as we have 3 children already and the option for her was a serious surgery, while I was able to walk home afterwards , followed by little discomfort or pain. Think before you snip.

Answer 2

My brother-in-law thought that he would never want children and had the snip. His wife later left him and he met and married a younger girl who had also decided not to have children. A few years later she changed her mind and left him for someone else who could give her a baby.

What I am saying is, you are only young and you do not know what the future holds so if you go ahead you may regret it later.

I'm told that the op. cannot always be reversed - it will mean that you won't loose your hair. My brother-in-law didn't.

Answer 3

how secure is your relationship? have you got kids? think very seriously. my partner had snip with ex wife after 5 kids 12 years ago. the following year she divorced him and had kids with another man. she wouldn't let my partner see his kids and now he is with me wants a child with me. we have just spent alot of money on a reversal that might not work and have to wait and see. this is a decision best thought about for a long time. you never know what is round the corner.
good luck whatever you decide.

Answer 4

circum.? yes, i think you won't have any regrets. sure it will probably be painful after wards but it will be temporary. just be sure to "take care of business" before you go under the knife. (haha) i bet that most women's fantasy's don't involve a guy with a little hoodie on it. sorry guys who do, there is nothing wrong with you. it is really such a small detail in the grand scheme of things. i don't believe that it would ever make or break the deal. if a girl is that hung up on something so meaningless she's got problems. it is a little cuter without the hat. just my opinion. some girls dig it. i would of married my husband if he was un-circ. without a doubt.
pro and con it. best of luck to you and your decision.
my opinion...go for it, you have nothing to lose..uh well maybe, haha

Answer 5

Its pretty difficult to undo so you have to ask yourself. Will I ever want to father children again. Possible disasters include children being killed etc, divorce. You would still need to wear durex as unprotected sex is still dangerous.
There are also possible medical problems in the future such as reduced libido - see doctor about this.
Good luck on this - you get a tie with IOFB on it - it looks good but means I only fire blancs.

Answer 6

I had it done and 6 months later my wife left me so think carefully before you do.
Is your relationship solid? Are you sure it is? very sure?
Are you over 35?
You are 100% sure you don't want anymore
if you do decide let me tell you it hurts so have a general not local
Good Luck

Answer 7

a bit like work or study..... sucks now but think of the fun you can have after.


might want to buy an icecube tray while your at it.


(to put some troops in reserve, just in case)

Answer 8

If you are done having children or don't want any, this is an excellent responsible choice. My hubby got it done and I'm thankful. Don't listen to the horror stories!

Answer 9

its your decision. do you have children? you are quite young, maybe you should think about it. you could freeze a sample for use in the future

Answer 10

if you have to ask the question I think you already know the answer